sluttyheels
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Sun, Feb 03, 2008 22:44:34
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if i read it right... maybe it depends on why the women in the shoes are participating in the first place... ???
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blablabla
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Tue, Feb 05, 2008 10:08:22 |
I think there are two sides to this question.
First of all the women on this site: most of them do not fully show themselves, something I can fully understand and if I had been a female I would do the same. But that does make it rather difficult to judge the woman wearing the shoes, doesnt it?
Secondly are the girlfriends/wives/strangers that wear heels. For me it does make a difference. It does help when a sexy pair of heels is worn by a pretty lady. It does help when a woman not only wears a nice pair of heels, but also pays attention to the rest of her outfit.
But then again, I think my shoe fetish has not evolved up to the same level of some of the other members here.
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sluttyheels
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Wed, Feb 06, 2008 20:08:51
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the women here would be very foolish to show their faces, especially as the men also donot show their faces... just their cocks.... personally speaking i would like to see more of the bodies that they are attached to, but thats another subject
surely a lot of it is fantasy...u see the shoes, u see the build, the figure, the outfit... the rest is down to the very powerful part of the brain that can imagine the rest lol
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Fetish Heels
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Fri, Feb 08, 2008 17:23:30
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hi there SH. I think the variations of shoe addiction are many and it is hard to quantify some of the urges encountered. Is is the shoe or the foot or both? male or female? I have seen both and admired both as a lot here have so I would have to say it can go either way. No getting away from the fact that NO ONE wears heels like a woman can ! But I have seen some pretty awful womens feet as well :-) I am sure my little rant here will draw some comment.
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englandheellover
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Fri, Feb 08, 2008 19:37:35 |
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t time.
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azarel
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Sat, Feb 09, 2008 15:01:44 |
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I'd say that if you can't tell (ie.: no hairy legs), it depends on the shoe itself
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sluttyheels
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Sat, Feb 09, 2008 21:42:58
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weve come full circle now... various views on the shoe versus the wearer.. all good too :-)
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Kayy
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Mon, Feb 11, 2008 00:03:54
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i disagree with the idea of people who show there faces on this site are foolish. obviously it is quite dangerous to put yourself on the internet. but i have seen many Candid Shots with peoples faces in them. what is the difference between the members showing there faces, and people who dont know there on the site showing there faces?
They do not have a choice.. so if Candid peoples faces are in pictures.. im not foolish to show mine.
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ShoeBdo
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Mon, Feb 11, 2008 01:51:11
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CathyC I'd like to answer your question from my perspective. The shoe is important and a huge turn on but the person in them are even more of a turn on. I could live without the shoes (well that's stretching it a bit) but I couldn't live without the person in the shoes. Fortunately I have my cake and can eat it too! Yes I have a wonderful woman who knows about my fetish and she indulges me, usually when I least expect it.
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Shoester
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Mon, Feb 11, 2008 03:27:27 |
To me, getting stimulated by a footless shoe or a nameless foot in a shoe does not come close to a shoejob given in love in a committed relationship. Just my opinion.....
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CathyC
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Mon, Feb 11, 2008 08:59:15
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Hi Kayy.
You have actually brought up a very good point, should the site be showing pics taken of women (or men) taken in a canded fashion showing there faces when most members do not show there own! Maybe we should not be doing this, interesting point i think.
The point raised by showing or not showing your own face in the pics is very much a personal choice, i like to see pics of people but i would not wish to scare everyone away wuth my mug shot, each to there own i think on this issue.
Must say you do have a very pretty face to show Kayy so that may have somthing to do with it, but how about your friends in the shots with you, do they know they are on here too?
I feel a good debate coming on here, sorry SH this is your own forum but as ever it's always a good one
Cathy XX
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Strappy
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Mon, Feb 11, 2008 10:22:02
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I don't put my face up here, or anybody elses. I don't want the chance that some friend of a friend might recognise my face and then tell my friends/family. My shoe fetish is a relatively private matter, and I will always treat others with the discreetness I would expect from others. I love seeing the whole person in some of the pics, Natasha_Zara for exanple looks fantastic top to toe. I don't have such an alternative lifestyle, and I would have to reprogramme my emotional brain cell to accommodate that sort of exposure. With individual members I trust, I am happy to show a whole photo of me, but I would be mortified if they put it up on the site.
We all have different approaches to this, and just have to repect each others privacy on an individual basis.
I imagine there is always the possibility of being exposed to blackmail if a malicious aquaintance recognised you and decided they could blow the whistle.
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blablabla
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Mon, Feb 11, 2008 10:31:01 |
The original question was "How important is the woman in the shoe who is attached to the foot". I responded that it is hard to judge on that and answer the question if the woman doesnt show her face as well. Again: I do fully understand why most of the girls here will never show their faces, as you don't know who is watching you. And from what I understood from some of the posts elsewhere on this forum, there are some male members on this site that have a habit of sending nasty remarks, so I can imagine the kind of reactions you will get when you do show your face.
Hats off to the girls, like Kayy who do show their pretty faces as well. I have to say that it really is an additional turn-on to see the gorgeous face that goes with the shoes!
I must admit that I do visit the candid section as I do enjoy watching shoes as they are supposed to be: worn in the streets. But I do find it not correct to show womens faces who do not even know that they are being photographed. Or even worse: follow a lady around and make whole series of her, I find that even a bit scary. But, that is something you see on many forums as well, I am not going to participate in a discussion on this topic.
As for the guys who post pictures of their women/girlfriends, full body and with faces without asking them if it is okay: that is just sick, can't find another word to describe it.
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sluttyheels
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Mon, Feb 11, 2008 18:55:29
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the original question was does it matter if its a womans foot in the shoe for wanking purposes as long as its pretty ... and if you check out the profile before u begin basically... so was it the shoe that attracts or the foot thats in it... so many variations on this one...
i still dont think its a good idea to post faces... that kind of thing has a habit of being alright at the time, but could come back to haunt u at a later date... lets face it Kayy they are interested more in the legs and shoes by the sound of it, so why compromise yrself? some things are best left to the imagination :-)
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Kayy
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Mon, Feb 11, 2008 22:51:28
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I agree with you Cathy. I probably shouldnt have pictures of my friends on here. But its not like im showing pictures of my friends faces and not my own :P.. maybe ill take the pics off. actually they get quite as much comments if more then myself haha. interesting thread how it evolved into multiple topics.
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sluttyheels
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Tue, Feb 12, 2008 13:43:57
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so candid or sneaky shots are under scrutiny too... its an interesting side bar, i dont think i would like pictures of me on a fetish site without my knowledge or consent, but there again does it matter if its a face or just a shoe shot... its all relative, its an invasion of privacy
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rockbox24
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Thu, Feb 21, 2008 01:01:22
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http://www.youtube.com/user/Alangarn
Check out this CD in heels who has awesome feet and models them like a female.
I know its a man but I think the feet and how they look in the heels take the cake. I have seen men in heels and it looks plain stupid but I had to do a double take when I found out this was a man.
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stuthestud
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Fri, Feb 22, 2008 06:58:24
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Ok, yes the feet look pretty nice, the toes are a bit over curled from too much high heel wearing but she, I mean he gets good marks and what an exception! Did I really write that? Too much high heel wearing! Shit I must be out of my mind....
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Neil
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Sat, Feb 23, 2008 21:54:26
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I will have to say that a lady in sexy shoes is the winner every time!
A lady's well kept feet in what might be judged as frumpy or careless shoes (Birks or Crocs come to my mind) is a lady bereft of imagination.
An amazing pair of sexy shoes without a lady's foot in them is an occasion waiting for an opportunity.
SEEING a lady in sexy footwear is the total package - they are on her feet to be noticed and she is enjoying the attention and the feel - the image is complete.
The imagination is the largest sexual organ in the body. Therefore I can see/feel/enjoy a sexy pair of shoes and IMAGINE the woman who would enjoy being in them. I can also see/feel/enjoy a lady's feet and IMAGINE the fine footwear that would compliment them.
Being in a house where the missus does NOT enjoy wearing sexy shoes, my imagination (and an occasional empty shoe) is all I really have. Would that it was otherwise...
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sluttyheels
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Wed, Feb 27, 2008 20:50:36
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if you are in a relationship where the woman is definately NOT interested in the shoe fetish thing, what do u do? confine yrself to using her shoes on the quiet? buy yr own shoes to use? or something else...
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