SS-Zombie
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Wed, Apr 28, 2010 00:14:25
Men in Heels where does it lead? |
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My question is for the guys in here who like to wear heels.
Did your shoe fetish lead to crossdressing and the eventual hook-up with another man?
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johnnyjake Premium Member
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Wed, Apr 28, 2010 01:59:40 |
no
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shoefetishking Hero Member
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Wed, Apr 28, 2010 12:45:23 |
No,not at all
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asdf174 Premium Member
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Thu, Apr 29, 2010 01:02:44 |
Well with me it lead to liking to dress up for fun but nothing further then that.
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Imroter Premium Member
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Thu, Apr 29, 2010 17:55:14 |
I'm not into crossdressing at all. I like wearing heels, but i wear them with jeans and a t-shirt. :)
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Spikes Hot! Member
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Thu, Apr 29, 2010 19:39:23 |
I typically wear heels with my male attire, but I have taken it further and crossdressed with heels, usually for special occasions or at places where I feel comfortable, like Halloween or adult bookstores.
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photofeet1 Premium Member
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Thu, Apr 29, 2010 20:47:37 |
I like to play with heels. Naturally I have to put them on to continue the fantasy of having sex with a foot in a sex sandal. Lucky for me I can give myself a masturbation footjob. wearing heels and nylons adds to the play. But I dont put on a dress. maybe nail polish but not for a whole day.
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heelsfan1980 Premium Member
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Sat, May 01, 2010 14:05:09 |
It did for me. I used to only be into heels, then that over the years led me onto stockings, lingerie, then on to complete the look with wigs, lipstick etc. The more I dressed the more submissive it made me feel and I started to enjoy bondage etc. It all ended up with me at the home of a guy I met on this site, in a black pvc basque, stockings, black patent stilettos and long red pvc gloves, with my hands cuffed behind my back sucking his cock. It all started with trying on heels.
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pumpjob Member
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Sat, May 01, 2010 14:12:42 |
No!!
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fillinghershoes Premium Member
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Tue, May 04, 2010 16:40:31
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The fetish remains confined to real women's shoes for me - mens feet and shoes are too big and ugly to satisfy the fetish. Shoes I can wear actually take away from the exotic thrill of the fetish. They make it boring
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ninewest09 Premium Member
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Wed, May 05, 2010 02:54:56 |
I started off only "playing" with my wife's shoe (sniffing and fucking) than with her urging me to "try" them on you might like it. I started wearing them. Crossdressing, again was started by my wife...first panties, garters and stockings to complete with wearing heels than bra, slips and cami's. I was not into wearing dresses but wore mini-skirts. That's the extent of it... it was meant for us to dress together when we have sex and not to meet guys.
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marcienjackie Premium Member
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Wed, May 05, 2010 20:24:24
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yes, but only with another TV which makes it ok ;)
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Shoeboi Premium Member
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Sat, May 08, 2010 21:15:48 |
For me no not into crossdressing and I'm already bi.
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heelspike Premium Member
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Sat, May 15, 2010 09:08:52 |
No....Not at all
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heely19
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Sat, May 15, 2010 11:38:09 |
I started wearing heels in secret quite a few years ago now, i then plucked up the courage to tell my wife about my fetish as i figured i could'nt hide it forever. My wife then suggested tights/stockings then onto a skirt. we have never really gone further than that although i do own a corset which is used for bedroom fun........
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EileensSpikeheels Premium Member
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Sat, May 15, 2010 19:28:33 |
...it's funny what goes on in your mind and what you allow to become reality in real life...I didn't start until I was past sixty and now I wear stiletto heel boots-progressing toward pumps- with my Wrangler jeans and male attire...
...from women in heels...to men in heels...to crossdressers posing...to crossdressers together..to crossdressers with men......now my focus of arousal arrives when I think about wearing my heels to catch the attention of other men...
...but, so far, I have managed to keep the world of imagining all this to making it happen separate and apart- and, to be blunt it usually become the object of its own ends-leading to masturbation and ejaculation and the urges recede...
...sort of a way to have it in my imagination without the harm or reprecussions that would come if it crossed over into real time..
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Sat, May 15, 2010 20:18:35
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fetish started when i was very young, with women in in heels and it has stayed that way. men in high heels does nothing for me and i have never put a pair on... let alone a dress and stockings.
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asdf174 Premium Member
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Sun, May 16, 2010 20:51:39 |
Honestl;y I'm not sure what to think with me anymore lol.
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SS-Zombie
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Tue, May 18, 2010 00:36:13 |
In case anyone wondered about me since I asked the question. Yes my shoe Fetish lead the eventual Hook-Up
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keet_in_heels Premium Member
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Sat, May 22, 2010 23:06:12
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Me from a very early like zero age my mother would always say I should have been a girl. Wow great start to life I suppose. As for heels that started when I was about knee high to a grasshopper. My mother used to dress me up as a girl. Wow yet again... Spike heels got to be my favourite I could wear my mums heels until I was about 16 then they where to small so I bought my own. I have that many shoes now I need a very large cargo carrier to move from one place to another. My partner I have now knows about my shoe thing she dont know how many I have though. My previouse partner knew as well but that bitch chucked a load of them in the bin that is something I will never forgive her for. As for cross dressing I dont bother so much now days I look as fem as a goat. I used to pass as female no prob at one time and enjoyed it. I have had sex with one guy a long time back and found it fun thats about it for that. But I see other guys on this site wearing heels and find it arousing but not that much. I prefer a female that is dirty with her shoes I dont mean mud. Being with my partner now and her getting laid by other guys is great. Senerio I must be mad but I always have been.......Pink Flloyd.
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EliseTVUK Premium Member
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Sat, May 22, 2010 23:56:49
Heely heaven irrespective of gender |
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Good question.
I've crossdressed regularly since I was 4 and also always worn heels. I bought my first pair when I was 11. I guess the two have always gone hand in hand.
However, I will often wear heels in male mode too and certainly the wearing of heels is the stronger of the two kinks.
In terms of it leading to wanting to be alluring to men and be intimate with them, I'm not sure it is all about gender. I dress to be seen and I wear heels to feel and look sexy. I love producing that reaction in boys, girls and inbetweenies.
And of course it has led to sex!
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Dr Jones Premium Member
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Thu, May 27, 2010 10:04:20
Don't know the answer ... yet!! |
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Like most on here, I've been into footwear and lingerie for a long time; 40+ years. In that time I've worn shoes and lingerie occasionally for personal sexual kicks. Now married for a second time (to a lovely lady who's very open minded) I can dress more fully as a woman for bedroom fun if I / we want to. But I have no desire at all to 'become' a woman nor do I feel as though I am when xdressed. I'm a kinky guy in a frock and a wig, and that's as far as it goes.
However, since joining HSS, I've discovered I get aroused by (some but not all) pics of guys in heels. Usually the more convincing a 'female' they are, the greater is the arousal. Also, I've discovered I'm aroused by very explicit pics of (say) 2 guys xdressed, one giving the other oral.
I've openly talked of this with Mrs Jones. She seemed mildly surprised, perhaps, but nothing more. I've also confessed to having some kind of desire for sexual contact with a good, convincing TV/CD and may, I repeat **may** even consider giving and receiving oral if the circumstances were right (whatever that means!!!).
Anal sex of any sort is strictly a no - no for me.
I'm a hetrosexual male with no interest in homosexuality at all, and I am V V surprised by my own reaction to some images I've seen on HSS.
Best.
Dr J.
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f9-nheels Premium Member
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Tue, Jun 01, 2010 22:08:22 |
Have had a shoe fetish sins I was young first i use just whear heels and cum into them later on I started with stockings. And later on even a litle crossdressing , but the main ting is to whear good looking heels , Long legged girls is a kick but even a crossdresse with heels is nice to see
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nyloncladguy1
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Thu, Jun 03, 2010 17:41:13 |
I started out wearing hose in my teen and only in the past four years or so have I been wearing heels. I just enjoy seeing nice legs in nylons and heels no matter who is wearing them.
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keet_in_heels Premium Member
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Thu, Jun 03, 2010 19:19:04
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I couldnt agree more a nice pair of legs with a nice pair of heels either sex or inbetween is almost as good as sex itself.
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azarel Site Moderator
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Sat, Jun 05, 2010 18:13:05 |
Shoes and cross-dressing has always been for my own personal pleasure. It's always been about woman's shoes, whoever is wearing it. With the internet, especially this site, I started liking cum and cock in shoes and it grew on me. As for hook-ups, maybe one day. I won't do it without the explicit wife consent or her being there (she knows all and I'm a bad liar...)
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bonniegurl
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Tue, Jun 08, 2010 14:33:50
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I have been wearing womens things since I was young, have recently got into heels and just love them. I do sometimes think of being more femme and do admit being bicurious, but havent done anything much about it except chat.
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