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Sun, Apr 05, 2009 22:22:44
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take a chill pill people for christs sake.
It is only people paranoia or insecurites what will take something like that comment badly. It was intended at stu obviously - who does make me laught. But oh - sorry, i forgot this place lost its sense of fun a good while back!
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stuthestud
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Mon, Apr 06, 2009 07:37:20
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end of this particular thread. thanks
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sluttyheels
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Mon, Apr 06, 2009 18:19:15
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yeh i agree there it did... but comments putting people down isnt gonna get it back is it? what amazes me is the comments ALWAYS come from moderators... and before you go off on one, all im sayin is take a bit of care what u say in an open forum where a lot of members can see and think u hold some kind of power
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what a shock!
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Tue, Apr 07, 2009 16:49:19
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There is no need to be careful or take a bit fo case when saying "Some people make me laugh". Becasue - to some people that is actually a compliment. You know - a sense of humour - something as I say is distinctly lacking on this site any more, and has been for the last year.
It is only to those guilty or insecure who will take it as something bad or derogatory. As for comments coming from moderators only - I think just as many insensitive comments come from those with their own forums whom again, can be perceived by some as holding "some kind of power".
People should chill out and not take this place so god damn seriously.
Honestly - is it s wonder why less than 1% of this site are women? I think not. I think at this rate there will only be one genuine woman left on this site.
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sluttyheels
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Tue, Apr 07, 2009 18:25:40
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well, the only power i have is through my heels :-) and its the only power i want.. as for fun... i think it went when Cathy passed away, or maybe it just went for me? i dont know..
the cosy community feel that existed when i first joined has gone, with a lot of original members and its a shame.. what this place needs is things going on... like the competitions and the old chat room... they were both fun.
as for comments i make, i say it as i see it and if people dont agree then that makes for a good debate, my type of fun :-) ,you cant get away from the fact that to hold any kind of title brings responsibility
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Spikeluver51
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Tue, Apr 07, 2009 20:54:30
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This is a great forum amd I am really enjoying the posts. I must say that I like to see legs and feet in shoes. Dangling is fun and I like that a lot. I hadn't thought about it before but when I look at the photos of some of the men in heels, they have such great legs and much of the time better looking shoes that I get really turned on and just don't care who is wearing them. I have just started taking pictures of my wife in heels and I am finding out how hard it is to get good, well lit pictures and really appreciate the many good photos posted by so many of the members here. Stu and WAS, I looked at your photos and you are indeed practicing what you preach, great job. Stu you have some excellent shots of just shoes by themselves that are a real turn on.
Anyway, I like to see the shoes being worn. I don't mind an occasional cock. I have one myself. I really like to see creative play with couples and the shoes being worn, nylons and pretty lingerie....... wow I am getting myself excited. Anyway, thanks for starting this thread. Keep adding pictures.....
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stuthestud
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Tue, Apr 07, 2009 21:25:05
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that were on the point of this thread.
We were talking about the shots, quality of and amount of shaggers good or bad & female participation.
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sluttyheels
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Tue, Apr 07, 2009 21:37:27
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we were talking about what annoys me... that was the original point of the thread... doesnt matter that we have veered off into other things... thats what a forum is for :-)
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stuthestud
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Tue, Apr 07, 2009 21:51:12
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old members active here but maybe thats normal or due to many other variables.YES , Cathy was a great moderator and alwasy took the time to be open and nice. Very smart lady and we all miss her & her postings! Thats "part of" what I think were suppose to help with here is generate more interest when possible, and yes not over judge issues but just moderate the converstations or shots to make sure there are no illegal issues that do not meet the membership terms or other issues of concern to the owner. The only action we/I can take is to notify the owner of the site,our Captain. Thats all the so called power we accept as volunteers. We try most of the time anyway, but were human & some times mistakes happen. Again, we are all open to suggestions and objections as we are members here also in good faith. For this site to continue to be FREE, then the Captain needs help in monitoring the memberships terms and for Q/A. So we help keep your shoe viewing free for all of us, and offer the Captain less stress....and we hope more shoe time for him personally....
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Wed, Apr 08, 2009 04:32:28
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But what exactly is a moderators job? I thought it was to help out the creator of the site and help in anyway they could to make the site a better place... If I am wrong please let me know.
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riftzone
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Wed, Apr 08, 2009 05:39:37
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I just read the comments by SH in the Power comment and i have to say i think i could have written it tooi feel excatly the same way about this place. There is less of a comunity spirit and the competition not running and the general feel of the place has changed. Maybe thats going to happen the bigger it gets, maybe small is beautiful, i'm sure it's a lot more easy to manage and run.
Anyway well put SH.
RZ XX
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Strappy
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Wed, Apr 08, 2009 08:35:23
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I 'spose I could take umbridge at some of these remarks, as ALL my images are cock and shoe shots. I wish I could take some with women involved, but I am single at the moment, and would only post images of another person's feet with their permission. I have foot fetish (women's feet only, and not my own or other men's), and a shoe/heel fetish. I fuck about with shoes as it gives me satisfaction in many ways. I post the pics on here as this site is called Hot Shoe Shots....which is open to several interpretations. There are other images on here I find distasteful, so I choose not to look at those. There is space for all of us on here, so choose the parts that you enjoy, and respect that others enjoyment may be slightly different. There is not single description that fits all, and variety is the spice of life. If we all agreed on a standard formula, it would only be fun when we broke the rules and pushed the boundaries.....and that will ALWAYS upset SOMEONE!
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Strappy
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Wed, Apr 08, 2009 08:52:29
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There is a section called Shoe Fucking.........what is supposed to go in there if it isn't errr....shoe fucking pictures?
Just a thought :))
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what a shock!
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Wed, Apr 08, 2009 19:37:36
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I have to dissagree with the comment that "having some form of title holds some kind of power". It depends what that title is. Titles people have here mean sod all anyway, and people do not ask for titles. I didnt ask for mine - I guess I was given it in my mission to help rid the place of nasty internet shots in accordance with the site owners rules. It depends on perception, titles on here, or my place of work be it "administrator" or a "director" doesnt bother me. They all get treasted and spoken to the same.
As for the fun factor, it went long before Cathy. I used to talk to her and didnt know she died for ages as I got sick to death of the site and its users so deleted my profile. I re created it and started again hoping things might have changed but in some aspects its got worse. Hopefully the new site SJ is making/made will help alter than on here and also on there where it may create places more appropriate for the different types or people. With regards to competitions - i never took part in them so I cant say they added anything to the site for myself. This whole site seems to be one big competition to some people whether you actually hold an intentional competition or not.
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Wed, Apr 08, 2009 21:37:14
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if you read my posts properly i said to hold any kind of title brings responsibility.. and... some members may THINK you hold some kind of power... as for your comments on what happened to your original profile... are you having a laugh??
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stuthestud
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Thu, Apr 09, 2009 07:20:52
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and have a good fuck and a beer....
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what a shock!
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Thu, Apr 09, 2009 08:09:22
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No, not a laugh. Becasue some people on here SH will only be happy when everyone agrees with their point of view and dictatorship. You go on about responsibility and power - I think you think you have some form of it all yourself as it seems you piss off as many of the females on this site as the males and people wonder why there is only a few women left. I feel that some people, mainly you will only be happy when you are the only female left to dictate your point of view!!
Why would it be a laugh to delete a profile becasue people piss you off? As I have said many times, this was supposed to be fun but due to some people "perceived" superiority and attitude becase they are behind a computer screen makes this place far from it. If anyone doesnt like somewhere, they leave or I am the only person with that sensibility?
I remain here due to the 5 or 6 nice people I actually speak to on a regular basis, but then sometimes forum posts appear that are so ridiculous you just cant help but comment, and therefore end up in inevitable rows becasue people can not accept others point of view. Enuff said.
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sluttyheels
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Thu, Apr 09, 2009 16:29:00
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lets get something straight...
you were removed from here by SJ, now in your fantasy world that translates to you deciding to delete your profile... thats fine... up to you, people piss u off so you get personal, because thats all you can do.
you came back and got yr old job back, good for you... so run along and do it.
i speak to anyone who speaks to me, i thought that was the point of the messaging facility, maybe you dont?
i am glad you post in forums, life wouldnt be the same without rediculous posts you are right there...
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what a shock!
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Thu, Apr 09, 2009 19:51:58
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If we are "Getting stories straight" darlin then I suggest you get your over inflated opinion straight as per usual.
I deleted all my pics personally bar 3, and then due to stupid shit between you and others led to more rowing - just as now which resulted in the remaing 3 pics of mine and my profile being removed. So be it - if I could deleted it myself, i would have.
As for getting personal - the only getting personal being done is aiming a message at you - what else are you supposed to do if something is aimed at someone?
As for old job back? What planet are you on? Or is it this title thing you seem to be jealous of again? Perhaps its becasue I actually try to do something to help the site other than post controversial material to get people rowing to make myself feel important?
Im glad you like that I post, as they give you something else to try and inflict your "always right"opinion on however im glad its myself rather than any other, more weak willed person who may actually believe your BS.
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sluttyheels
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Fri, Apr 10, 2009 11:56:07
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means attacking someone on a personal level if you think you are losing an argument, an office manager i would have thought would know this...
as this "row" is getting boring, i am changing the thread in MY forum.. we will probably never agree, but that can be healthy, just in future maybe you should work on your people skills a bit more....?
so... "what annoys me" is painfully obvious... the end :-)
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Spike
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Mon, Apr 13, 2009 11:02:02
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Lets be honest, a shoe fetish is predominately a “male thing.” Believe me, I whish more women had a real fetish for high heels. I also know all to well what it’s like to have this fetish and nobody to share it with. And yes I’m guilty of polishing a few pairs of shoes. I’ve been pretty lucky over the years to find girlfriends that would accommodate my interest. I also realize many guys aren’t that lucky and shag shoes as a surrogate. Others may be in a relationship but are ashamed, embarrassed, or afraid to ask their significant other to accommodate their fetish for fear they’ll be seen as a pervert. I wonder if this is a reason for why some straight guys turn to shoe shagging or wearing the shoes themselves?
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I personally like to see sexy women in stiletto / spike heels with pointed toes or other varieties that exude a feminine petite demeanor. Sneaker and flip-flops are about the direct opposite—sorry, just not my thing. However I realize “one man’s trash is another man’s treasure,” as the saying goes. And that’s why I can appreciate all of those who participate in a great site like this one; there’s something for everyone. And while cock-in-shoe shots are a little superfluous, some are pretty good.
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Spike
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Mon, Apr 13, 2009 11:25:41
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Okay, two things that do bug me are:
Out-of-focus pictures. Most people aren’t “photographers,” so I’m not overly concerned about composition, but please post pictures that reasonably sharp.
Small photos. It is annoying to find a great shot but only to discover it’s the size of a postage stamp.
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shoe man
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Tue, Apr 14, 2009 17:12:07
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we need more photos taken then all this bs about this thing r that thing .what gets me is some people took great photos and just sayed f it haven't post any in the last year .lets get the going ,putting small clips ,more photos and to hell with rates to me a good rate is when someone message u and say nice job .so that whats annoys me more photos oo yes love all u guys
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ThongZ
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Tue, Apr 14, 2009 17:44:22
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This is my favourite site,the pics I don't like,I ignore.There is no other site like HSS and reading the forum tells me it's alive and kicking.Thanks to everybody participating,posting and moderating.Good job!
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