stuthestud
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Tue, Jan 15, 2008 20:29:00
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Ignore the title but I got your attention right?...This is not a big deal, but anyone else have issues with members not really replying to messages in the email system inside the site? I normally send some constructive or fun or even a sexy message only to get back some reply like this: "Yes thanks"
or," Oh yes loved the shots you sent, I jerked off...End" or similar very very short reply when I asked a few short questions and entertained them in detail. How about some more efforts in the replys back is all I am saying with some mutual efforts!. Same issue with sharing peronsal photos by email. I send a few great shots on the promise of a mutual exchange and never get any back. Thats NOT good faith and its just shitty abuse of this site or its members!Go shag over your own shitty looking heel shots if your not willing to share a photo, a link, a good story, a detailed thank you, a detailed sex story, SOMETHING of value to share with a fellow member! IF not the go jerk off to a old ugly shoe & dont ask me for more.....Any one else have a similar occurance??? Am I off base here? too picky? what you cannot read or write? Too busy shagging or jerking??? what???SHY???
if you showing your prick and ass here your not shy.....yeah I guess I am tired and irritated at this on the participation of other members is all...oh well....thats it. Got it all out...
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stryker
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Sat, Jan 19, 2008 22:45:47 |
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It was only a matter of time my friend when you let it get to ya
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Kayy
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Sun, Jan 20, 2008 00:29:36
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some people have too many messages to respond to :S.. erm..
dont yell at me lol.
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yourmale
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Sun, Jan 20, 2008 00:40:37
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Hello Guys,
Seems to be a lack of input all round! No input with stories and forum new posts are all "can I have a upgrade please".
Members seem to very rarely post new pics so like you with your emails, I find myself feeling im putting something in and not getting anything back!!!
Posted a load of new pics and for my time I was rewarded with joke votes. Until a voting system is accountable to the person who voted(posters can see which member voted poorly) There is no payback in ratings for posts.
So.... I will re post my shots again once I see a marked improvement in input from other members !
Stu n Stryker,maybe shoe lovers really are not that interesting??
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riftzone
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Sun, Jan 20, 2008 19:24:03
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Have to say i hate it when i dont hear back from other members, but then i guess the more popular ones may be getting far more than i do, and if they are away from the computor for a few day then it must be hard to play catch up so it may not be they are just ignoring you message. They may not even be full members with the use of the messages when you send yours and cant reply
It would be better if those who dont want messages sent to them to state it clearly on there profile as some already have
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stuthestud
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Sun, Jan 20, 2008 19:42:59
| Yeah, I decided to let it roll off my back |
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I know I write a bit too long emails also... thats just me. And we all dont have the same abilities time or passion. Its a Forum so I let it all hang out so it would not build up more and my dick could go back to doing its thing....keep the faith....
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Labek
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Sun, Jan 20, 2008 20:01:49
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I wholeheartedly agree, but what I will say is this: I know for certain that some members do get put off from posting anything into forums for fear of being 'flamed' for their desires/beliefs. This is generally a very open and accepting site, but there are occasions where people have either started or replied in a forum, and have then had to endure some awfully rude/aggressive/misguided replies that has dented their confidence or embarassed and has driven them away from sharing their experiences, especially from certain members who are tasked with maintaining a balance, yet cannot adhere to the 'rules'. Seeing people in responsible positions causing offence does lose the confidence in members who would normally be only too willing to share wih the site.
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stuthestud
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Sun, Jan 20, 2008 23:43:59
| Shoe fetishmen not that interesting! HEY |
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I know, I know,, I am a shoe freak myself or fetishman. Dam I just love a woman in heels! So I post new and sexy heel shots and send interesting and entertaing emails. Thats why some of the lame replies, shitty postings and lack of efforts by some members just made me ask why the low participation or good faith. I'm sending emails and fairly nice heel shots for them to get off on and I get little in return, thats just not right. Maybe you just dont think its a issue till I happens to you repeatedly....On a more postive note, fellow heelmen members-...So prove me wrong and post more and improved photos of hotshoeshots we can all share. Get a bit creative, use some better backgrounds more light, better cameras and sexy ladies heels. Just try to improve is all from whatever skill level your at and lets see the Passion & heat come out! After all its hotshoeshots so lets have some more fun! Shaggalicous!
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sluttyheels
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Mon, Jan 21, 2008 16:20:42
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sometimes theres not a lot else to say apart from thank you. and receiving a short reply is better than none at all isnt it?
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CathyC
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Tue, Jan 22, 2008 10:44:22
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Have to say i agree with SH and Labek in this forum. I always try and reply with at least a thanks to show i have read and enjoyed the message, maybe it's takes a while before people are confident to start writting more, give them a chance! Also as Labek has stated, I can see why alot of people dont comment for fear of the tone of replies we have seen on here at times.It has been enough to put anyone off when the toys start getting thrown out of the prams.
Many times from people who really should know better!!
Lets keep things open to debate and listern to what others have to say rather than putting people off just because it's not just what we want to see
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stuthestud
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Wed, Jan 23, 2008 00:26:54
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You have an unfair advantage over me.... I am crazy about your feet and hot shots! So yes your absolutely right and I beg for your loving touch, ah forgiveness that is...yeah...STU
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CathyC
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Wed, Jan 23, 2008 06:29:43
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Hi Stu.
It's not about being wrong or right it's about a balance and putting your point over in a less confrontational way maybe.
I do agree with you about non-replies but it's not always the fact that people just dont bother, and a simple thanks is better than no reply at all.
Even Kayys' joke reply "Dont yell at me" does show that maybe some members who might want to post dont do it because of the way some posts are reacted too, in a personal and aggresive way.
We need to encourage members to join in not beat them into it, after all it doesn't state when you join that you have to do certain things or your going to get a bashing from a Moderator!!
Maybe Site Assistant would be a more friendly title
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