mrheel
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Tue, Jan 01, 2008 00:17:34
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I have had this fetish since I think about 8 or 9 seeing this mature woman strut around where I used to live.
I have only lived out my fetish of the love for heels and gorgeous feet in the last two years of my life.
To get to my point...not many women enjoy this fetish. What I have found is that most if not all the women I have met love buying shoes mainly heels. This is great but I think if you were to tell them of your fetish for heels they would run a mile and think you were strange. I have chosen my girlfriends based on their heels which may or may not have been a good thing.
I feel I may be going off my fetish almost like growing out of it due to the fact I feel like a perverted male and I think some women do not understand.
I think if you a love a woman, you make sacrificies to keep her and if this means hiding and forgetting my fetish maybe its worth doing.
What are your thoughts?
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stryker
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Tue, Jan 01, 2008 07:11:24 |
If theres one thing i've learned is you cannot change who you are. Or your passions but i understand how you feel, you feel alone and theirs no one you can turn to the point you made about choosing girls wearing heels i have done the same.
the only advice i can give you is that its a gamble if the person you love and your willing to make that sacrifice to give it all up then do what you feel is right.
but on the other hand if your partner doesn't know about ur shoefetish then thats not the person you should be with.
your not doing anything wrong since this type of fetish is kept behind close doors.
The good thing about this site is you are not alone.
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heels 4 2
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Tue, Jan 01, 2008 10:02:17
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the. thing is. when is it right to expose your fetish to your loved one. before or after your relationship begins. because a relationship is based on your likes and dislikes
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sluttyheels
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Tue, Jan 01, 2008 14:12:27
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i think basically we all look for that one person who we can be ourselves with, who will know our deepest darkest desires and accept them, and not think any the less of us for having them. relationships are complex, i would say the greatest thing you can have with your partner is trust. true love doesnt always conquer and to hide who you really are is always a mistake as the real you will come out eventually.
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stuthestud
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Tue, Jan 01, 2008 18:28:42
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You mentioned just 2 yrs of heel fun.
Hey, you've got to make up for lost time shagger! Timing & presentation is everything. You can find a lady who at least will wear and tease your cock. Most women know heels make them look hot & are sexy. Many love heels & collect or buy tons of shoes, but are not sexual directly with the shoes. Many could be introduced to the next level with the right touch, timing and intimacy. Just dont open your closet too fast or yeah she will run out scared. Lifes a compromise and relationships complex. Means you might have to be ok with a great chick you get along with but only wears heesl in bed once and awhile. If your stuck in the extreme fetish mode then it will take much more luck to find such a partner. There are some more appeciative ladies who need what you offer and are willing to do just about anything if its safe,harmless and private. Just dont expect her to look like a model unless your a money bags or your a model!...Keep the heel fetish and enjoy life without remorse or resentment for not being yourself & meeting your needs also. Have fun but keep it straight and in moderation!
Then post those shots here so we can see your progress on catching up on your heel fetish.
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rockbox24
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Tue, Jan 01, 2008 22:35:14
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Hey!
Its like a drug. It started for me in pre-k when I saw my teacher walk in in two and a half inch loafers along with those great legs. I got a boner in an instant.
Ever since then I have been watching womans feet in heels especially in the summer.
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Neil
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Thu, Jan 03, 2008 00:54:57
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I don't buy that a fetish is anything you can "get rid of" - you feel how you feel. You make it worse trying to close that feeling off. the experts have tried to tell folks of ALL sexual persuasions that have not been considered "right" to just change - and I doubt it works.
I have only been able to share my fetish a little bit with the lady of my life. She doesn't like being treated like an object - a shoe rack or anything else - so I haven't been able to venture any further in my fetish adventure. I try not to gawk too much when I am in her company, but she knows I am aroused when I see a sexy pair of shoe or boots on a lady.
Dude, I may never get there. But it feels better to indulge a little and hope for more than to just try to ignore how I feel. Power to you - and best wishes on this shared quest.
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drmgero
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Fri, Mar 14, 2008 05:41:28 |
Bear in mind, pal, that shoes and shoe fetish partners are dynamic entities. I have had shoes in birthday parties, raves, in my own house (sister friends, etc.). So, sometimes I get a little cold whilst I have few oportunities in range.
So, try "working out" with your own shoes... I have a couple of platforms for these hard times. But, my advice is: stay tuned. Shoes and shoe partners do come out from nothing.
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shoe man
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Fri, Mar 14, 2008 18:32:29
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Its a hard thing to tell a woman I like to fuck your shoes and feet.some may think you f...in crazy and some gaves u a look like hows he's going to do it.Shoe pals it happen to me and lost some girlfriends and got to have some of the foot/shoejobs .Well what i'm trying to say dont't anybody give it up and if i'm 80 r 90 years old and still can get up it on and poping.
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faith
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Mon, May 19, 2008 18:48:12
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i have never revealed my fetish to anyone before. I came {scuse the pun!}to the point i love womens shoes so much that i could get my fix being like a woman. I am divorced now {other reasons}and have not looked for a new partner.I think another like minded cd would be my best companion. I am not gay but i think a cd giving me a shoejob would be great.I still have 2 teenage kids living at home so it makes it a bit hard.
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