Dr Jones
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Wed, Apr 09, 2014 19:32:12
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Just been looking at some photos of guys in heels (and various womens' garments). And I've gotta be honest - even though I consider myself totally straight - there **is** something quite erotic about a man wearing ladies' shoes.
I've zero interest in gay matters. But I would like to pleasure a guy (his cock) who's wearing heels and sexy ladies undies.
I'd love to try using shoes, belts, handbags, nylons, etc, etc on his cock and balls. Couldn't kiss, couldn't do any anal stuff - my God, no, never - couldn't touch anything else other than the cock.
Just wondered if there's any general interest in this sort of thing from straight guys.
Dr J
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Shoeboi
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Thu, Apr 10, 2014 00:21:52 |
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There is a lot of intrest in that.
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bobbybox
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Fri, Apr 11, 2014 13:08:43 |
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You are not alone, far from it. When I dress I become such a slut, but only for cock, no more, no kissing nothing, still into women for that. Strange maybe. who knows.
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Dr Jones
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Sat, Apr 12, 2014 10:01:54 |
Yes, for this to work for me the guy would have to look like a fairly convincing woman. A hairy chested bruiser with a moustache, for example, who also wore ladies' shoes would not do it for me! LoL.
There are one or two guys (on here and elsewhere) who look good dressed as ladies, and I probably could interact with them in that sexual way.
Must stress I've never done anything like this before so, at present, it's little more than a fantasy thing.
I'm not actually sure what I'd want from the experience: a cum is the obvious answer but this whole thing is very complicated issue for me.
Dr J
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bobbybox
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Sat, Apr 12, 2014 10:41:17 |
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Exactly. A lot of it is pure fantasy, then its difficult finding someone close enough to share our fantasy and fetish. But would love to meet someone and have mutual wanking over what we enjoy, where's the harm in that?
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Dr Jones
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Sat, Apr 12, 2014 11:45:54 |
I don't know, bobbybox. Mrs Jones may or may not go for the idea. She's certainly wary of my little interests where other ladies are concerned (thinks I might run off with them, or something ... which I certainly won't).
I suppose the other issue is that of mutual trust because of having to reveal parts of one's own personal identity to a kinkily sexed stranger. I think I'd be grossly uncomfortable to meet a guy for kinky sex in (say) a hotel room: I'd feel **very** vulnerable, to be honest.
I'm not even certain about fully revealing my interest in shoes to a close woman friend. We share loads of hot, kinky sex ideas (speaking, not doing). I'm sure she'd let me indulge myself with her and her shoes, but I'd baulk at directly asking. Maybe a little Dutch courage is needed? Thing is, once the secret is revealed, it's revealed!! And it could easily be used against a person if things went sour.
Don't know what to think, bobbybox ... I just don't know.
Best.
Dr J
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bobbybox
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Sat, Apr 12, 2014 12:52:06 |
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Hi Dr J. Its tricky of course, because a lot of people don't understand, we all have our own thing we are into, women really and rarely get it or understand it. I would find it cold meeting in a hotel, would rather accommodate , or maybe a car meet. Others here will have their spin on things. Its never gonna be easy, its a case of being comfy and trusting that person.
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Heels and hose
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Sat, Apr 12, 2014 16:38:48
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Dr. J and Bobby,
As you can both see I'm a guy who loves to wear not only woman's shoes but also nylons and some lingerie as well.
I know what you mean about being very turned on by seeing a nice smooth guy in some sexy heels and hose. I get turned on wearing them and seeing others in them as well. A non-dressing guy or a guy with lots of body hair does nothing for me at all.
I'd love to chat with you about it if you feel the same.
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asdf174
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Sun, Apr 13, 2014 05:14:46 |
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I think I can understand somewhat at the very least. Even though I have given up on relationships I get all kinds of slutty when I dress up. Only difference is I consider myself bi, or at the very least bi-curious (though I think it gets even more complicated then that to be honest.). But I love dressing up and playing with various "toys" for hours on end while watching porn or listening/watching sissy hypnosis videos. Gets wild and exhilarating with the best orgasms for me. And yes I'm still into women very much. Just kind of given up on being with one for the time being because of rotten luck and no confidence on my part. And at the same time I also like CD/TG/TS and have experimented. All part of how the fetish is evolving with me I guess. (at one point I did consider myself 100% straight with just a shoe fucking/wearing fetish) Dr. J, Have you ever thought about maybe having your wife use a strap on? Experimenting that way? They have really realistic, even ones that ejaculate.
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Dr Jones
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Sun, Apr 13, 2014 10:55:36 |
Hello asdf174, how are you?
Yes, I have a strap-on but Mrs J would sooner me not use it on the grounds that she prefers my cock even though it doesn't always work so well.... ;-)
She also has a small selection of vibrating dildos, etc, which I am happy for her to use whenever her need arrises, and whether I'm present at the time, or not. I want her to have her cums and not be restricted by whatever I am unable to provide at any given time.
In actual fact, Mrs J is a kinky bitch, and will try almost anything once. That included using shoes, etc, as part of our sexlives.
Best. Dr J
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bobbybox
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Sun, Apr 13, 2014 11:06:28 |
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Some good words and advice from all. Yes would love to chat Heels. Here or e mail?
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Dr Jones
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Mon, Apr 14, 2014 09:08:51 |
OK. Well here goes. I'm not actually sure where to start. I had a mind to name some guys on here that I might like to interact with. But I'm not sure it'd be fair or right to do so.
Unfortunately, too, some guys look totally ridiculous dressed as women and I certainly could not interact with such a guy.
I suppose my interest in a sexual encounter with a good CD / TV would be to do some of the things I do / would like to do with a woman dressed in a sexy way. Shoe touching, kissing, etc. Stocking-ed leg touching. But little else except working his cock with heels.
I could, for example, take his cock in my fingers and stroke / rub it with a shoe. I could use nylons on it for him. With (say) a condom I might **MIGHT** use my mouth on him in conjunction with shoes and hose.
I'm not sure I would like him to do anything sexual to me: I can't decide about that at present.
Anyway, there's a starter!
Dr J
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bobbybox
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Mon, Apr 14, 2014 16:53:40 |
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Great start Doc. Then choose a guy or 2, some one that is close enough to make it happen, see what goes. E mail, fone, cam maybe, see if you click. Believe me your gonna get a lot of time wasters along the way.
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Dr Jones
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Mon, Apr 14, 2014 18:16:34 |
THE gigantic step!
This would have to be cleared by Mrs J, first, and I'm not altogether sure how I'd even broach the subject with her. Though I have told her I might consider sucking a CD /TV, and she didn't flip!! LoL But a casual mention is a country mile from trying to make arrangements.
I'll have to see.
I continue to check out guys on here and thoae on CD TV sites.....
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bobbybox
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Mon, Apr 14, 2014 21:18:16 |
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Just take your time, keep posting and keep us posted. Be lucky.
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Dr Jones
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Tue, Apr 15, 2014 10:03:13 |
Thanks.
Mrs J is going through a bit of a rough patch, personally, atm so now isn't the best time to discuss this stuff.
Best.
Dr J
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bobbybox
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Tue, Apr 15, 2014 21:05:28 |
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Sorry to hear that. Hope all is well soon enough.
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converselover1110
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Thu, Apr 17, 2014 14:45:35 |
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A lot of that does sound pretty damn fun, especially when the shoes become involved. Sounds like something I'd really enjoy myself!
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Dr Jones
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Sat, Apr 19, 2014 19:23:53 |
Hello again, folks!
I think to start with I'd quite like to try a brief sexual encounter with a really nice CD / TV who, as well as dressing, had a strong shoe fetish.
I'd quite fancy teasing the 'lady's' cock with a variety of patent shoes (colours, styles, etc) before giving 'her' a cum by placing the cock into a peep toe and moving the shoe back and forwards.
A bit of cock slapping with shoes if the 'lady' desired and maybe rubbing the shaft with nylons and / or ladies' panties ... just to add to the fun. Rubbing the under-cock glands with a gusset when the helmet skin is tight and shiny can be a particularly good source of pleasure, so I'm told.... ;-) ;-)
I probably wouldn't want my own pleasure until I'd done this a few times.
Best.
Dr J
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bobbybox
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Sun, Apr 20, 2014 08:13:21 |
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mmmmmm put my name forward for that Dr. When do we start?
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luvshoefun
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Mon, Apr 21, 2014 06:17:34
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I'm enjoying this thread very much.
I consider myself straight but with a very powerful shoe fetish and an attraction to pretty crossdressers. And to me they are women who have male genitals.
I can't think of them any other way. I did meet a girl called Katie twice and it was exhilarating. I even wore lingerie and stockings under my male clothes and slipped into heels when I was with her. It took weeks of getting to know each other and building trust.
The two evenings were experiences I don't regret but although she loved shoes and boots she didn't go for raunchy shoe sex.
I'm now seeking some sexy time with a shoe wank buddy, have a thing about fucking his wife's or girlfriends shoes and wanking together. If that person wants to dress up then it would probably be very erotic but it's shoe sex with a like minded guy that makes me feel horny.
The thought of spending some time turned on and playing with shoes together, talking dirty about our fetish, maybe watching mutually appealing porn, and then cumming together is mind blowing!
Hope this continues, it's very stimulating
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bobbybox
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Mon, Apr 21, 2014 16:50:28 |
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Sounds like a perfect few hours to spend. Shoe fucking with a wank buddy, and I can dress . mmmmmm
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converselover1110
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Wed, Apr 23, 2014 15:28:36 |
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Still loving this thread! ^_^
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Dr Jones
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Mon, May 26, 2014 12:55:13
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.... it's over a month since the thread was added to.
To be really honest, I'm not sure how to start. Having said I'd like to do it, I just don't know what to do next. Assuming Mrs J is OK with it (and that's **not** certain by any means) I'd have to find a like-minded guy to try it with.
Sure, there are guys on this thread who'd like to try it. But how do they know if they can trust me ... or I them? What if guys met somewhere but couldn't carry it through? It seems frought with danger.
What do other guys think?
Best.
Dr J
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bobbybox
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Sun, Jun 01, 2014 10:16:14 |
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Welcome back. Its a big step of course, but unless you try how will you know. Most on here are genuine and discreet. Talk a while with 1/2, me if you would like, then take it from there.
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Dr Jones
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Sat, Jun 21, 2014 11:11:40 |
Hmmm. Well, I don't know.
Well, I think what I **really** mean is,
1) I'm uncertain about broaching this with Mrs J.
2) I'm uncertain about how to approach a guy if she goes with the idea.
Yeah, I know, there's only me who can decide....
One thing I have been thinking about lately, is starting a kind of bucket list of sex. Having just turned 60 years of age I guess I've not too many years left where I look OK-ish and can manage an erection / screw / cum, and my health ain't generally so good. LoL
So it's not so much a bucket list, more of a 'getting a bit older' list.
On that list I'd have:-
a) the guy / shoe thing afore mentioned.
b) playing with a really large pair of tits (never done that and soooo want to).
c) cum on my very good friend's heels whilst she's wearing them. ( might dare ask her and I think she'd agree).
d) a 3-some with Mrs J and another lady (she would probably try that if circumatances were right - Eg, we did it it Amsterdam as she suggested!!!!!).
Can't think of any more at present!
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bobbybox
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Sat, Jun 21, 2014 11:32:01 |
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Good list so far Dr Jones. I think its a mid life thing us guys get. Maybe we should all put a list on here and see what happens.
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Redcourts
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Tue, Jun 24, 2014 07:53:27 |
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This a great thread and nothing less than the ideas of toyed with for so long myself
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Dr Jones
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Tue, Jun 24, 2014 13:27:27 |
Well, with guys who wear heels for pleasure / X dress / etc, what would you want from this type of experience?
I mean, well, would you guys want a woman to do these things for you? Or would you want a guy to do them because you are dressed (partly or wholely) as a woman.
I suppose the looks of that person, too would make a difference. I'm sure most would like to fancy the person in question. Or would that matter, in actual fact, if the object of the experience is a shoe-related cum?
I couldn't imagine many guys of any age fancying me, for example, but if a cd / shoe wearer just wants an orgasm with a like minded, shoe-kinky person, my physical attributes (or anyone elses, of course) mightn't matter so much.
And how do you folk think about the sub / dom thing. Would you like to be play-dominated as part of this?
Views guys / gals!.
Best.
Dr J
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Heels and hose
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Thu, Jul 10, 2014 16:51:57
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Dr Jones
I can only dpeak for mysrlf but I do feel much
the same as you co when it comes to guys in heels and nylons. There is something very sexy about the look of a nice cock framed by a pair of stockings or under a sheer pair of pantyhose.
I had never give the idea of being with a man any thought at all untill I found the web and founx out that there are some any other guys out there like me who loved to wear.
Since then I've gone ahead an taken the plunge so to speak. I'm glad that I did and would like to do it again but only with an open couple as a three way.
If you would like to chat about all of this I'm online most evenings but not much for the next few weeks since I'm on holiday in Europe.
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Dr Jones
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Thu, Mar 05, 2015 10:17:05
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I started this thread almost a year ago.
I suppose I'm a bit sad to say that nothing of my sexual inclinations has changed. Whatever I wanted to do hasn't been realised.
That's for many reasons, I suppose. If a couple think about doing this stuff - that is, going outside the marriage for sex in some pre-agreed way - they both have to be fully sure about it. Unfortunately some doubts exist because neither Mrs J and I are feeling 100% because of unrelated life pressures.
Interestingly, tho, the other day we were fooling about and she used a Rabbit on herself to cum. Them I w*nked as she slid the Rabbit in / out of my mouth. The arousal was blatant and she asked if I'd like to suck the cock of a ladyboy. It may have been just for my sake, as it were, but she may also be partly accepting that as a possibility. I'm certainly going to talk this over with her when the opportunity is right.
Sometimes we do this psychologist / patient rollplay thing where I'm the patient. I can completely open up to the wife during rollplay whereas I may not be able to do that directly to the wife when she's (just) herself ... if that makes sense. The rollplay is for sex, tho, and the patient always ends up in bed with the psychologist. LoL
If you see what I mean ... I could, for example, ask the psychologist to ask my wife if she'd fix up (say) a session for me with a TV or CD, or any other sexual eploit I wanted but that I couldn't directly ask Mr Jones to help me with. Or does all this just sound total b*llocks?
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