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| My shoe fetishism posted on 17-August-2015 16:04 | This is a testimony about my favorite fetish passion through my life and how does it interfere with this site and the Internet. Many might find common experiences to this text while others will think it is something totally strange for them. Just remember we all are different people growing up in different environments.
I had this curiosity and the impulse to see high heels or wear them. I can’t exactly point out when I started but I can remember me trying my cousins’ heels on when I was like 5 years old. She became a person who pushed me towards wearing heels because of she used to use me as a doll for her. She was 5 years older than me and she used to experiment her makeup skills on me for fun, where I never resisted. I like what she did but I had concern about it even when I was small. I was a modest eldest, shy child, and by watching the power of the women shoes and the destruction they caused after their step this complex flourished during school into a shoe fetish. The enthusiasm towards trying out heels was never lost. My mom never wore heels because she is a tall woman. I did not have the access to heels as I pleased and that made me even more inquisitive towards watch and trying to put on a pair of heels (which I did whenever I visited my cousin). When I came older enough to understand what is going on, I tried to look at the subject as an illness and tried to look out for classifications about the shoe fetishism.
I found the following definition of shoe fetishism that partially reflects the issue that I have had for a long time. It is difficult to define what I experience and come to a conclusion of what is really happening in my head. Shoe fetishism is the attribution of attractive sexual qualities to shoes or other footwear as a matter of sexual preference, psycho-sexual disorder, and an alternative or complement to a relationship with a partner. It has also been known as retifism, Individuals with shoe fetishism can be erotically interested in either men's or women's shoes. Although shoes may appear to carry sexual connotations in mainstream culture this opinion refers to an ethnographic or cultural context, and is likely not intended to be taken literally. Feet and pantyhose are related fetishes which are common among shoe fetishists, but this is not always the case.
I have experienced that the shoe fetishism do not hold the same curiosity for each individual who claims that they have shoe fetishism. In fact from all the people who I have encountered who declare that they like shoes do not always like the same type of shoes, but most of them demonstrate the same curiosity towards high heels. Even the resemblance of type of high heels is also varied from person to person. When I consider myself, I have definite interest in certain type of high heel shoes, like sandals, pumps, and peep-toe shoes with lesser platform. There are personalities I have talked who have much more different interest as sneakers, ballet pump as such. I have found, discussed, and shared my fetish with many people both male and female over many years and I have learned much from those, who like myself, find an unusually erotic power in shoes and boots. Some enjoy looking at shoes and boots, some enjoy wearing, some touching and feeling them, while others enjoy watching people walking in them, others like being able to buy them both new and used, then there are some who enjoy them in their sex life to the full exclusion and replacement of what one might call normal heterosexual or homosexual behavior.
For some time I’m looking at the elucidation given by scientist about this fetishism. There are several theories, including one from an expert who says that sensation in the feet and genitals both transmit to the same area of the brain, so there could be some accidental crossover there. Many people say that men who are interested in heels are homosexual where; in most of the studies, outcome for that question is not the common answer, where every study indicates men wearing heels are heterosexual over 80% of the time. Since the society has a general evaluation of what is gender and what they wear, most of the common people do not comprehend that wearing heels is anything other than heterosexuality. I am an active heterosexual that also has a very, very active and ongoing lifelong shoe fetish. On this subject, and when it comes to my perceptions, I would like to think that through my real life experiences that I probably know more about what I am talking about than most of the researchers I have read over the years, who, quite frankly, do not get it, have not tried it, and really don’t understand what it is like to in simple English, try on a pair of hot shoes.
In case of my behavior and the interaction with the cultural and social back ground, still I do tend to keep my shoe fetishism a private feeling. I started sharing these feelings only like 8 years back in the internet via different web sites that provided me with the atmosphere that I can be comfortable with and to be open with my desires. Things are quite simple and predicted here. Before the Internet I thought to be the only man in the whole world with this "specialty" about shoes and even there were other people like me it would be impossible to know meet or contact each other. I understood that since there are web sites dedicated for men who love to wear heels on the net, there would be enough people to discuss the matters with. Suddenly I was no more alone. People like me were all over the world, demonstrating their sweet passion. I started visiting every site sharing my feelings and even pictures of my shoes understanding how people react to what I have to offer.
The issues I have to face in the future are more lucid for me now, though I do not have any exact answer for any of them. I’m yet to find a lady in my life, the biggest issue of all is breaking down the shoe fetishism to the person. A person with my cultural and social background will not be happy with what I’m going through. I have never exposed my true image to a lady with my cultural background, since I always know that the answer will be a really harsh one. However, if I ever get married and if the lady does not like what I do, and then there will be a huge dilemma of what to do. I know I am born with this issue and it is a very rare possibility for me to push down this fetishism.
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For the moment I’m happy with the fetishism that I have inherited because of the feelings that I get with shoes (high heels). I would be happy to have many comments as possible to what I have to say about me and my fetishism. I know that the article is jumping here and there with details. I always welcome comment on this matter from every person in hotshoeshots.
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