sluttyheels
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Sat, Mar 01, 2008 23:00:26
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if you are in a relationship where the woman is definately NOT interested in the shoe fetish thing, what do u do? confine yrself to using her shoes on the quiet? buy yr own shoes to use? or something else...
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mrheel
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Sun, Mar 02, 2008 00:08:03 |
I was in a seven year relationship with someone who never knew, and I used to just use her shoes when she was out.
I have always been open about it since...
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riftzone
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Sun, Mar 02, 2008 10:20:57
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I think most of us have had this buried away for sometime until we meet a person we can feel safe to share it with, but once you have enjoyed the open shoes experiance then i cant imagine going back to a shoe sexless relationship.
Even if you loved the women it would be hard too i think.To be on this site that has ladies like SH who are so open and willing to chat about it makes it seem less of a kink and more of a fun thing to enjoy.
So many thanks to you ladies on here, gives us hope that there lots more like you out there
RZ XX
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Metalmaker15
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Sun, Mar 02, 2008 22:03:34
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I have to bury the urge, my wife is not the slightest bit interested in my sandal fetish, so for 26 years I've used her footware and kept a small collection that get's used and abused. I joined this site so I can at least be with like minded people. Before anybody asked I have discussed it with her many times and I buy her sandals and it doesn't get me any further forward!
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shoe man
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Mon, Mar 03, 2008 00:47:10
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well my wife knew i love footjobs but her shoes well just say her black pumps .when she gets super dress up 4 sex sometime she put them on and i put my dick on she said ok.a few day a go she found my last post that my dum ass didn't delete and was asking all kind of thinks so i showed her the site today and say ooo .told her that her red shoes is # 1 she said oook and i said i can sell them and that she got a little happy and said get a good price 4 them. to say i get them from her, buy them, or take from people i know.call me crazy but if u leave a hundred dollars on a table and a pair of close toe pumps just say the pumps r gone.
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drmgero
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Mon, Mar 03, 2008 03:19:20
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Luckly I met girls who could share it with me, but, at first, it is better to keep in secret until we are ready to have sex.
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blablabla
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Mon, Mar 03, 2008 08:49:43 |
If a person's fetish is for real there is no way you can bury it or switch it off at all. It will get back to you one way or another, so trying to bury it or ignore it will only work for a short while.
The easiest way out is to do it behind your partners back, sneakily "do her shoes" or even worse: find another woman to share it with.
I have always choosen the difficult, but most enjoyable path: to be open about my fetish, to talk openly with my partners and to find a way to deal with it that is enjoyable for both.
And yes, some women will have a more open mind to it then others, but I cannot imagine 1 woman in this world that doesn't enjoy having a partner that adores her, who makes her feel sexy and wanted and who looks at her as if he sees her for the very first time each and every time he looks at her.
Now, if you keep that in mind when you decide to share your shoe fetish with your woman and also make sure she knows about the other big plus of having a shoe-lover for a partner, namely: a carte-blanche for extending her shoe collection, then you are in for a nice ride!!!
But off course there is also the other approach sometimes used by men: just try to force their fetish upon their partners, almost ordering them what to do and how to do it and I can fully understand the women who get scared off and never wear any heels again...
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cuminshoe
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Mon, Mar 03, 2008 12:58:28 |
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My fiance doesnt know about my fetish but only because its by my own choice. When we met in college 6 years ago I couldnt wait to get my hands on her shoes, and when I finally did it was great! And to be honest, to this day, I can still remember how exciting it was. So for me, thats the feeling I dont want to lose...which is the reason I choose not to tell her. I mean I could easily tell her about it...but a part of me loves the fact that she has no idea her shoes get fucked and cummed in--especially when we're out in public. And that excitement is something I dont want to lose. I know being open about it may open new doors for me, as I have fantasies I'd like to share with her. But like I said, not telling her takes me back to when we first began dating--which I loved--I was so horny for her shoes back then! And I just dont want to lose that. But I could also see your point of views; perhaps its wrong to have secrets in a relation, but at this time, I chose not to include her. I only say that because I know what it feels like to lose interest in somebody and not be able to get that urge back. The only other person who knows about my fetish is my younger cousin. I told her about it when I returned home to visit once--only because: 1.) she had on shoes that I liked. 2.) I always had a thing for her shoes. and 3. ) we were drunk and partying together. And to my amazement she didnt seem to mind. She even said if I wanted those particular shoes she had on, I'd have buy her a new pair. It was the first time I had ever told anyone in person, and to be honest it was exciting. But after a while, I lost interest in her footwear. And I realize because my fetish was out in the open--there was no excitement about her shoes anymore. I'm not totally cut off from her shoes but I miss the secret lust I had for them. And thats what I dont want to lose with my fiance. I still enjoy sneaking around, waiting for chances, especially when I'm horny. For me, thats part of it! And I know I couldnt get that if I was to tell her. I'm not saying I'll NEVER tell her, but for now it fits our lifestyle. And as for the topic of this thread, I love to bury my urges for the right oppertunity to get her shoes. It may take days, even a week, but it keeps me excited.
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riftzone
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Sat, Mar 08, 2008 07:34:12
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OK so how about we switch the question and ask the ladies the same thing. Clearly SH you enjoy the whole shoes and sex thing, can tell that from your great shots, but what if you met MR Right who is this amazing guy in everyway except he thinks shoes are just functional items for wearing out, and can't understand why you would want more than and pair of black and a pair of brown shoes, all very sensible heels to. Could you or anyof the ladies on here bury your urge to use shoes as part sex.
I think you would think about shoes in a different way to us guys but i wonder just how much they are part of your sex drive ?
Interesting reply from cumshoe too, where part of the fun is the thrill of haveing somthing you shouldn't, i ca understand that totally
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sluttyheels
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Sat, Mar 08, 2008 17:47:18
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well ive never just had one black pair and one brown pair of shoes... ever lol always loved high heels, but must admit only used them as part of sex the last 8ish years.... could i revert now? its a question i have asked myself, and the answer is i dont know... i would prefer not to .... and theres no feeling in the world like watching my shoe lover sucking on my shiney patent heels as he looks up at me. so MY Mr Right wouldnt be if he didnt share my love would he?
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Strappy
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Sun, Mar 09, 2008 01:29:28
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Interesting that men find women's shoes attractive, and women finds women's shoes attractive.......begs the question....does anyone find mens shoes so sexually attractive?
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riftzone
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Sun, Mar 09, 2008 07:58:05 |
I think men and women find womens shoes attractive because they are made to be enjoyed when seen, they are beautiful on many levels, so lots of people love to see them. I think that women seem to find the attraction in the effect it has on the man in there life , so they become more attractive wearing the sexy shoes or they enjoy the whole effect it has on the man they are enjoying the sex with.
Intrersting thought about mens shoes, closest thing in could understand would be for unisex trainers, but for me the women has to be wearing for them to be sexy, on there own they are just trainers, and not sexual at all
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sluttyheels
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Sun, Mar 09, 2008 14:45:43
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if you back to centuries past, men wore high heels too, infact theirs were more ornate than the womens ... mens shoes today are quite stylish i think, but they are large... its probably the petiteness of a womans shoe, and foot that is the turn on... the high heel makes the foot look a lot smaller, man or woman
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riftzone
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Mon, Mar 10, 2008 06:46:30
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well i dont go back that far LOL.
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LovesPumps
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Sun, Mar 16, 2008 21:14:43
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Can't fight the urge...so I do it secretly with wife's shoes - she doesn't care for my fetish. Ironically, her sister knows of my fetish - caught me with her shoes and lets me borrow her heels. She likes the idea that she and her heels trun me on.
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sluttyheels
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Sun, Mar 16, 2008 21:32:08
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does yr wife know yr sister in law knows.... and likes it?
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shoe man
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Mon, Mar 17, 2008 01:03:46
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wish my in law let me do her shoes .do you leave cum in them, r ask her to post a few shoes for us?
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LovesPumps
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Wed, Mar 19, 2008 00:14:32
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No - she doesn't know....at least I don't think she knows...
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CathyC
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Sat, Mar 22, 2008 20:30:05
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For me now, it would hate to be without the shoes side to sex, but i still want to be the focus of my mans attention in my shoes too. Greedy i know!!
Could i do without them well yes i think, but it would not be as much fun unless we found something as much fun to replace them. Hope it never comes to it, shoes are too much fun!!
Cathy XX
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