sluttyheels
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Sat, Jan 26, 2008 15:07:50
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whats it like to "admire" a shoe shot only to find youve been drooling over a mans foot in heels?? just wondering... does it matter to anyone what the gender is along as the foot in the shoe is pretty??
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Strappy
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Sat, Jan 26, 2008 17:35:51
| Men's V Women's Feet..... |
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No contest!
Women's feet are women 's feet, and they are the ONLY ones that do it for me!
But then I am a man! What do women think?
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stuthestud
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Sat, Jan 26, 2008 17:54:49
| Full disclosure often is not needed. Menfeet.. |
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I am all for full disclosure noted in the profile section of your blog page. Normally it's apparent in a shot its a man due to the ugly toe-leg hair & huge or nasty feet. Of note is this site was really intended for lovely womens heels and feet in shoes. Its rare when a menfeet look good & I have only seen one member ( heelslive) here pull it off as posted in the toe cleavage contest. I like pretty womans feet only and dont switch gears. We understand not all have access to a female model or the same sex drives or tastes. So , just click on past, smile and keep on looking for your own personal hot buttons and friends. Happy shaggin
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riftzone
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Sat, Jan 26, 2008 19:10:26
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Well interesting as ever, something i have not really thought about before.
I can understand the sexy feel of a guy wearing womens shoes, have tried it myself and yes it's pretty sexy to do that . But looking at a guys feet in sexy shoes doesn't really do anything for me at all. I might think nice shoes but thats it. For me it's most certainly women in womens shoes that have the right effect.
I'm with strappy too, love to know what women enjoy seeing and how they view these things!!
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Strappy
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Sat, Jan 26, 2008 19:50:51
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Does a Man's have to be 12" before it is considered to be a foot?
Mine isn't quite that long, but I am working on it!
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sluttyheels
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Sat, Jan 26, 2008 21:10:32
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this is interesting, my point being, when you are flicking through high heel shots and using the other hand at the same time :-) would u care if u found out that u came to a mans foot in heels or wouldnt u bother to look at the profile?? and just assume it was a woman... there were a lot of posts a while ago from men saying they would give another man a blow job... even tho they considered themselves straight....is this a similar thing?
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stuthestud
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Sat, Jan 26, 2008 22:03:08
| Caught Jerking over menfeet? |
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Yes, that could be a pisser if that happened. Its kind of getting old also seeing so much of it here on the site since this is not suppose to be a men on men site anyway. You get my point. Again this my personal view and I click on past material I dont like but I realize others do and thats ok. Each to his own. Lets just not focus on one extreme!
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Strappy
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Sat, Jan 26, 2008 22:07:03
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I agree, I have had men write to me with all sorts of suggestions about what they would like to do to me.......very flattering I suppose, but that's not for me thanks! My sexual thoughts are for women only!
I find trying on women's shoes quite erotic, but I wouldn't share that with another man. i might do it for a laugh for a woman if she asked me nicely, but I wouldn't consider myself a CD for playing with shoes like that.
Each to their own!
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stuthestud
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Sat, Jan 26, 2008 22:19:36
| Love to wear heels? Shaggin comment..debate |
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Oh, is it ok to like to wear womens heels and your not a CD? Is the mainstream definition of CD/TV incorrect? Is your heel fetish just so strong you want to feel the shoe on, get close, see it on a foot? Does that make you a CD or stranger than shit? I dont know the answer, it think like all sexual issues its very complicated and case by case. Here is another ? or thought.. If you become what you think about and view... If your jerking or shaggin over all the heels and or cock on heels shots for the shoes but cumming anyway.. are you not training your mind like Pavlogs dog to get a hard on over cock by association? Or just the high heel? Both? Or is it the same as just looking at a good blow job shot up close...? This is a open ended ?, one for thought not a judgement so please dont misread. This is a open discussion and I am seeking out others opinions & different views not emotions based on assumptions.
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Strappy
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Sat, Jan 26, 2008 22:54:09
| Hey Hey....calm down, don't be so judgemental |
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Like you said in your post, you don't know the answer.
There is nothing wrong with CD/TV's, I am just not one of either. If you read my post carefully I said I have tried on women's shoes. I don't habitually wear them. It is not as though holding a handbag suddenly makes a man into a woman is it?
I enjoy shoes, womens feet and all sorts of erotic and fetish wear. I am open an honest about it. It is quite unneccesary to rant on in such an aggressive manner on this site. Cut to the quick, what are you trying to prove?
If you don't like my photos, don't look at them.
If you want to talk pseudo-science, don't bore ME with your stupid theories. I am not interested!
Your comments and train of logic are offensive, and badly thought through. I don't suppose the cum on those shoes on your site came from your cock then?
Don't throw stones in glass houses.....
Leave me alone!!
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stuthestud
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Sat, Jan 26, 2008 23:25:01
| OFF BASE. Go back and re read or forget it. |
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Sorry you took this personal, that was not my intent. You brought up the orginal ? and forum. I just expanded on it and placed no judgement on your shots at all nor on your statement. I was exploring the debate, opening it up for a forum. Forget it, not worth the mental thought, I guess I was too deep for this forum and I hit a nerve. Oh well... back to just the simple joy of pretty and sexy womans feet & Hot heels!! later...
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Strappy
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Sat, Jan 26, 2008 23:35:14
| I see you have edited you original post..... |
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It distorts the sequence of debate if you go back and change your original post.
I shall not be adding anything further to your comments as it is important to see BOTH sides of a debate accurately, and that is no longer possible.
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stuthestud
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Sat, Jan 26, 2008 23:44:24
| Emotional outbursts dont help.... |
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I was having fun by exploring what YOU opened up in the forum. If you only wanted simple nasty sex speak then ok.. no big deal.. have a drink, grab a heel and shag it! Happy trails to you....
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sluttyheels
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Sun, Jan 27, 2008 00:04:21
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i think if we were concerned about main stream definitions none of us would be here... men being fascinated by shoes, turned on by them to such an extent that they want to have sex with them, cum over them and in them is acceptable to some and yet straight men wearing them is not?? seems to me if u lust after anything ... u want to see it,feel it, experience everything about it, possess it, own it ... and wearing the shoes is taking ownership, the only way to totally understand the power of a sexy high heel... doesnt mean anything, doesnt have a label... it just is...
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Strappy
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Sun, Jan 27, 2008 00:11:10
| The Heeling Touch........ |
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You just have such a wonderflower way with wordlings!
Hot Shoe Shots...
A name open to interpretation methinks!
Happy being a straight male with a few passionate fetishes......off to practice my art!
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stuthestud
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Sun, Jan 27, 2008 07:57:12
| Pretty heels and pretty good prose... |
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Sluttyheels, ok, your heel lust insight is on the money!
Sexy and a good mind, that really gets me hot! Thats exactly what I was looking to get into and explore,
thanks
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riftzone
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Sun, Jan 27, 2008 08:12:20
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Seems to me that if your passion is for shoes then it is natural to want to experiance them in anyway, To Kiss, lick, touch, feel, stroke, fuck and cum over are all things that seem fine. Yet are we saying that if the shoes are of a size that can be worn by a guy and he tries them on then he becomes TV/CD. I dont think so, just another part of the wonderful experiance that shoes give people like us who love them.
Why is it that a perfectly good and sensible forum turns into a personal bitch between two guys, Seems to happen a lot and as a Moderator and a site assistant (anyone know the differance) this isn't going tpo encourage new people to want to get envolved in these intresting debates.
Always rely on SH to come up with a good point to discuss, all very intreesting.
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stuthestud
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Sun, Jan 27, 2008 09:02:27
| Some members must not read correctly.... |
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I never was arguing on anything, try reading what I wrote. Part of the arrangement is to help increase participation and explore issues about heels or sexual issues some members have expressed an interest on....
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sluttyheels
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Sun, Jan 27, 2008 13:08:38
| back to the discussion in hand... |
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sometimes the language barrier gets in the way i think, plus excitement rules the fingers... lol
lets carry on... open house, no editing cos it spoils the flow, even if u regret something youve said just leave it and lets talk it all through ok?
so when youre all having shoe fun either with a partner or alone... u must want to wear the objects of your desire... surely... on yr feet i mean :-) or do i detect some stigma in admitting to this?
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Strappy
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Sun, Jan 27, 2008 13:39:02
| Balance restored, thank goodness for that! |
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I don't have any problem in stating that if a womans erotic shoe turns me on, I will wear it on my cock, my feet or wherever I feel the urge. I enjoy women wearing and playing with them, and I feel they are an important part of the excitement with the opposite sex.......Why would they be produced and bought if people didn't have fun with them.
If people just want to look at a catalogue of images of beautiful shoes....you only have to look in a beautiful shoe catalogue. Surely the whole point of a site like this is to take more intimate feelings for shoes (and feet) to a different level, without the fear of being ridiculed.
If I have taken offence due to a misunderstanding due to a language problem, then I apologise, but I am NOT going to sit idly by and be abused because my feelings are different to somebody elses. I am causing nobody any harm.
I agreed with SH that if you have a point to make for discussion, DON'T change it AFTER a response has been made, and it makes the respondee look like an idiot....which I am not!
Glad things are back on an even keel, and long may it last.....
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sluttyheels
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Sun, Jan 27, 2008 13:48:07
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honest feelings and no ridicule... dont let others put u off... share and we will all benefit im sure, we cant be closed minded, open up and lets get a truer insight into something we all share on different levels x
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stuthestud
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Sun, Jan 27, 2008 21:07:53
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If it turned me on to wear ladies heels and I had no partner then I might try it I guess, but no I have no stigma on that issue. Just does not do it for me. Yes I am a shagger and extreme lover of high heels, so I am open and not main stream myself. Not many men go out and buy heels alone for their ladies or clothing. I also yes do think heels are sexual objects in fashion, tv and for most people. They just dont want to admit that fact openly, or dont associate it correctly. Women know heels make them look hot and many ladies love heels but dont have a sexual fetish with the actual shoe. Women know the power of the high heel for sure!!
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sluttyheels
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Mon, Jan 28, 2008 14:30:12
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so you would only consider wearing them if u had no partner?? do u think she would think less of you to want to wear heels to play or fuck in... or do u just want her in heels? or have u never allowed yrself to broach the subject?
my pix show a real man having real fun exploring his sexuality and fetishes, theres no label for that but its a hell of a lot of fun :-)
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riftzone
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Mon, Jan 28, 2008 14:56:33
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Your so right SH, why do we feel the need for labels all the time, The only one we really need is "fun". Have that and not much matters does it. And you certainly seem to know how to have that!!
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Strappy
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Mon, Jan 28, 2008 17:57:05
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Effing good Fun is all that is needed, I wholeheartedly agree! Where do "Social Conventions" fit it to Fetish Fun?
Break all the rules, but respect others feelings, and you won't go far wrong!
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blablabla
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Wed, Jan 30, 2008 09:22:39 |
Personally I don't mind men wearing heels and hosiery, do whatever makes you feel right and enjoy it. However I do not enjoy watching pictures of men in heels at all. Especially pix of men that don't even bother to shave their legs and groin and then wear heels and hosiery are an unattractive sight to me.
But again: do as you please, I don't care less, I just don't enjoy watching it at all.
Next to that I am very open and honest about my fetish. I do buy heels and clothing for my girlfriend, also when she is not with me. And I do talk to other women about their heels and clothing and make them tasteful, but very clear compliments when I enjoy their dressing style. And I have lots and lots of fun by doing so!
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CathyC
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Wed, Jan 30, 2008 17:05:55
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Well said Bart, thats the kind of thinking that will take this site forward, really intrersting point to be chatting about, is it the shoe thats sexy or the person in it that makes them sexy, male of female?
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Shoester
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Thu, Jan 31, 2008 02:59:01 |
That is an interesting question Sluttyheels. My attraction is women wearing feminine footware and I'd like to think I can identify a female leg and foot however, I admit to being fooled on occasion....I understand that sexual desires are quite varied and understand there are men who like to wear women's apparel....It's just not for me.
Perhaps another question might be "How do you identify a female leg and foot?" Polished toe-nails? Softer curves? I have found women's toes tend to be more separated from each other...Any other observations?
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blablabla
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Thu, Jan 31, 2008 08:26:08 |
If a guy has small, well kept, feminine feet and shaved legs and only shows the lower part of his leg then there is no way you can tell the difference I think. But still, if I know it is a guy I do not bother to study if I can see a difference, I just jump to the next profile.
For me high heels are female footwear and a big part of my fetish is about women wearing them, the way a nice heel makes a woman more feminine, more seductive, more sexy and more powerful. An empty shoe can be rather nice, but it is the touch of a woman, of her elegance that makes the shoe sexy. So I most enjoy watching pictures of women wearing heels.
Thanks for the compliments Cathy, I too rather have some sensible discussions here, hoping that it will eventually become a more attractive place for both men AND women to talk about and share their fetishes.
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sluttyheels
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Thu, Jan 31, 2008 11:41:03
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if you click on a picture u like do you always check out the profile? it could be too late to do that if u are so aroused by it... and thats assuming the profile reflects the true gender of the person posting the picture... so maybe its best to go with the feeling the picture produces in you and block other thoughts out... enjoy for the moment so to speak
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Thu, Jan 31, 2008 11:54:01 |
I can partly agree with that.
If a guy really puts in the effort to look feminine I can appreciate it, but I still do dislike it.
But a picture of a hairy, masculine leg and foot forced in a womens shoe my stomach really twists and turns a few times.
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sluttyheels
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Thu, Jan 31, 2008 12:51:43
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so i assume u always check out the profile first... just incase :-)
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blablabla
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Thu, Jan 31, 2008 12:57:09 |
A good assumption SH!
I am not homophobic or anything, I just don't enjoy mens feet in sexy heels.
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Strappy
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Thu, Jan 31, 2008 14:21:22
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As a generalisation....and why not....womens feet tend to be looked after better than mens feet but they are also a different shape. They are usually smaller, more slender, and well....more feminine! It is the softness, shape and femininity that most appeals to me. Do women find mens feet attractive? What qualities would you hold important? Being straight, I only fantasise about women's feet. I can see that some mens feet look feminine, so they could be considered attractive also, but that's where my thought process stops!
It has to be said that just because they are female, doesn't mean the foot is attractive either! Good and bad feet can be male or female, but I like female ones as one step......best foot forward.....leads to another!! That's not a journey I want to make with a man!
Hairy legs and bloke feet don't do it for me, even my own! When I try a pair of heels on, it's what it feels like that is important. I can keep my eyes closed and still enjoy the sensation.....
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sluttyheels
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Thu, Jan 31, 2008 15:10:11
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thats very true Strappy, its all about the feeling of wearing a truly sexy shoe, and what it does for you... as for finding mens feet attractive... well if they are well cared for.. and dont stink lol... they yes they are attractive to me because they are masculine... and theres somethin my male friends foot squashed in2 my sexy womans shoe thats so shouldnt be right but is...
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Strappy
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Thu, Jan 31, 2008 15:40:03
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Men like women's feet in all sorts of situations, and women like mens feet in all sorts of situations! That is the norm, but others will have their own preferences, so everybody is happy....except the intolerant, but we must allow them to be intolerant I suppose!!
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Strappy
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Thu, Jan 31, 2008 15:43:06
| Womens feet in mens shoes... |
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Now that I would find sexy.....but not necessarirly the male shoe!
Even if we debate this point any further, where will it get us? I know were I stand....on my own two feet, looking at beautiful womens feet and shoes!!
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Strappy
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Thu, Jan 31, 2008 16:48:31
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.....just to make quite sure I haven't unwittingly killed off this wonderful Forum, what do you folks feel about seeing unkempt feet (rather than pretty feet) in beautiful heels...or are you so distracted by the erotic shoes that you don't....(or maybe do)...give a toss?
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sluttyheels
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Sun, Feb 03, 2008 15:38:53
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so brings an interesting question to the forum, are the shoes the main attraction or the feet in them, or both...
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CathyC
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Sun, Feb 03, 2008 20:28:40
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I can only assume from reading the thread that there are many levels to the shoe fetish, from the shoe only being the object of desire to the shoe and the foot (male or female). But how about the women in the shoe who is attached to the foot, how important is she in all this . Would you guys like to be only the object that wears shoes and that is the reason your women like you.
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