CathyC
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Sat, Sep 15, 2007 16:53:54
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Now don't get me wrong this is not a criticsisum, but i really dont get what trashing or messing up a really nice pair of shoes does for anyone. I get upset if i scratch my heels and as for stepping down a drain well dont go there LOL. I can see the arty side to some shots such as Missgoody2shoes, but what is it about setting them on fire or cutting them up thats turns people on. I'd love to know from anyone who likes that??
Cathy XX
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stuthestud Site Assistant
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Sat, Sep 15, 2007 17:04:09
similar thought issue.... |
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Ok, I agree those are unusual stimulants of which I dont desire. Add in pissing into heels, pooping in them or sticking them up your ass. Why not your ear or nose? Up the peepie wholes gotta hurt like Hell too! But theres always a level of jugdgement here that you cannot really mirror, given were shoe freak/weird in the eyes of most.
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Chepol
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Sun, Sep 16, 2007 13:59:48
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As someone once said: "everything is relative". What Stu here is trying to say is: We are only relatively screwed up in the head department, there are others that are more screwed up than we are! LOL (Stu, please excuse me for trying to interpret your wisdom) Chepol
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CathyC
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Sun, Sep 16, 2007 15:31:23
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Thanks for that interpretation Chepol LOL Well if being screwed in the head means we get to see pictures as good as you have just posted then i'm glad i'm screwed too!!!
But i still dont get the thrill of trashing or messing up perfectly good sexy shoes. Would a WAM fan help me out here, maybe it's a violent thing or power trip?
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Neil Site Assistant
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Sun, Sep 16, 2007 16:03:55
All about wanton depravity |
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First I'll say I am no expert. I'll also offer the ideas of defecation or penetration are really big turn ons for me, either.
That said, my perspective on the rush of "trashed shoes" moves in two ways.
First I guess that the women's shoes I saw most often were worn shoes - well worn ones. Church ladies and teachers and the ones on the rack at the thrift store were all scuffed and sole-worn. It speaks to me that the shoes are worn by a woman who LIKES to have them on her feet. I prefer a lady who enjoys wearing sexy high heels for her own satisfaction, not just because I asked her/made her put them on.
Second, and more extremely, the aspect of wanton depravity. The SEXINESS if you will seems accented in some way if it seems like the lady not only wants me to NOTICE her shoes, she is willing to GIVE her shoes to me in an destructive act - and by extension is totally free and willing to give of herself as well. Cutting, trashing or otherwise making the shoe an "all for now for you" statement compounds the eroticism of her having those incredibly sexy shoes at all.
Just a view from the cheap seats... ;-)
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Neil Site Assistant
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Sun, Sep 16, 2007 16:05:09
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Meant to say the defecation and insertion areas are NOT big turn ons for me.
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gtmf4 Premium Member
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I have to say I agree with Cathy. I dont get it myself either...in fact it makes me a bit sad, a nice pair of sexy shoes being wrecked...each to their own tho I guess!
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sluttyheels
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Mon, Sep 17, 2007 16:27:19
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im into the wanton sexiness of it all... i can identify with that up to a point... altho the thought of destroying any of my heels puts me off just a bit.... unless replacements were available ofcourse :-)
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CathyC
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Mon, Sep 17, 2007 19:46:01
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I get what your saying SH but still dont get what is wanton or sexy about setting fire to a pair of shoes or putting them in a pile of rubbish or burying them, maybe it's just each to there own.
C XX
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sluttyheels
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Mon, Sep 17, 2007 20:14:21
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as always... variety is the spice of life and is so with this fetish... above all else, as has bin said many times before.. its complexity and diversity is never ending...
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nemo9
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Tue, Nov 04, 2008 20:34:59
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i like baby oil all over madams stockings makes shoes shiny too-then oil everywhere else-usually ends in a nice anal fuck-
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TrashedAbusedShoes Member
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This is a hobby I definitely can't explain. I've tried some self-psychoanalyzation on my blog but still can't make much sense of it. And compared to others, my interests are somewhat limited.
There's something about a worn pair of shoes, maybe because I have a thing for a dominant woman and trashed and abused shoes are a sign of a woman dominating an object. I also tend to apply human elements to objects, so that could be it. When I was a kid, my mom had a pair of Keds-style canvas sneakers that I felt bad for because they were her "around the house" shoes and she didn't treat them well at all. They were ripped and stretched out and falling apart. Years later I dated a heavyset woman that was extremely rough on her shoes and I wondered if they hurt... did they feel as though they were suffering because she was so cruel to them? To this day I see an old, worn out pair of shoes and wonder what they're feeling. Yet I can't explain any of it.
What doesn't interest me all that much is intentional destruction. Don't get the burning or putting shoes in a pile of messy food, nor do I want to have sex with shoes. But to each his own.
Check out my blog: http://trashedabusedshoes.blogspot.com/
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