sluttyheels
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Mon, Aug 27, 2007 16:26:49
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this is a mainly male orientated site... they get a sexual reaction to heels and the women who wear them... what about the womens side of it... how do see yrself on here? as objects of desire? owners of amazing heels? or something else???
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CathyC
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Tue, Aug 28, 2007 18:17:28
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Hi SH
Thought i'd be the first guest on your forum, very good question too.
Got to say i have no idea why i do post on here, never really thought about it like that.
Maybe it's the fun of being able to be free with your fetish without really being known to those others on the site, except by your sexy shoes etc. It's an amazing free feeling to be able to show what ever you like and hopefully get some nice comments back, bit like going to an orgy for shoe lovers but without the risks, or the mess LOL
Dont think my camera would make me an object of desire or a sex symbol, if only LOL
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iio58
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Wed, Aug 29, 2007 01:52:43
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I post pics here becasue I am proud of my collection and love the fun of taking the pics. Ive been taking these pics for years for the fun side and this site has just been a medium to share.
There are plus sides and downsides to everything. A plus side like Cathy says is being bale ot post whatever you want - the downside is of course some of the treatment you get and although yes you can ban people - you still have to read it first to then ban them.
I think any women on here are seen as objects of desire. I got am email from a user yesterday who i had never conversed with saying "what would it take to fuck you and your heels"!!!??? I then gave this person a harsh written telling off to which he then apologised and we got talking for the rest of the afternoon and he wsa really nice. So people could be a little more polite instead of thinking we are all "Whores" as some utter idiots post states in one of the forums.
I mean - im not a prostitute becasue I post pics of heels on an adult site and do not want to be treated as so - but then a plus side is that I have met some wonderful, funny, polite and what I would call Gentleman on this site to, whom i converse with regulary. Like everything - plus' and minus' I guess. But I post here because its fun - at the end of that day thats all this is - fun.
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CathyC
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Fri, Aug 31, 2007 19:34:35
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Thats very nicely put iio58.
So how about you SH why do you post on here?
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sluttyheels
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Fri, Aug 31, 2007 20:15:50
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ive bin into taking pix for a long time, and it gives me a real buzz, i love dressing up and i love heels... i originally posted for my partner... now i post for me and he is a willing co star lol....
as for the tone of some messages, i find that once u cut through the bravado most men are cool to talk to. u just have to remember this is an adult site mostly populated by men, who lets face it.. look at our pix and wank, thats if they like them ofcourse :-)
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Rio69
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Sorry if this discourse was only meant for females but can I put my opinion across? Yes as a male I do get very turned on by imagery and I do love this site partly for this reason, but please ladies do not get offended by our sometimes quite aggressive sexual statements it is our first response to such beautiful images. I do hope if the people here are really men and we can show we also have our gentle side that is the reality behind these unfamiliar sometimes nasty stetments. I cannot talk for all men but please accept that even if we might sound direct we are actually gentle. Please ladies keep posting your pictures and I say to men please act like men.
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sluttyheels
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Fri, Aug 31, 2007 23:06:28
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is open to anyone who wants to make a comment... no editing or deleting here.
thanx rio, yr views are very welcome... shyness plays a big part in the more aggressive messaging sometimes, its always hard to make the first move with any type of contact.
Men just remember... when it stops being fun on here for us women... we will be gone, so think about how what you write will be received before you press the send button... we are all someones sister, mother, wife, etc..... aswell as hot stuff in heels :-)
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iio58
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Sun, Sep 02, 2007 21:59:26
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It seems through various topics on here myself and SH often have completely different viewpoints on a lot of things. However her statement here I am in total agreement with and Rio - thank you for your contribution - it is nice to know and hear things like you have said - and yes, I do know some folk have a "knee" kjerk reaction that sometimes is just best not said.hahhaah. But I was happy to read both the last 2 posts so Thanks! x
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