Dr Jones
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Sat, Apr 12, 2014 12:03:57
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Hello ladies. Dr Jones here.
I, like other gentlemen posting on this forum, crave forgiveness for so doing. But I'd love some input from ladies on this issue, please.
Ever since I was about 17 when I was mocked by a woman for my cock size, I've had a complex about it that's, frankly, **totally ruined** my sex life.
The few women who've seen their share of other hard cocks assure me mine's totally normal. But I simply don't believe them and, when it came to sex with a woman in the past, I'd run away - either literally or otherwise.
There are one or two guys on this forum with huge cocks (that I'm insanely jealous of) and there are one or two who are opposite to that.
Thoughts / wisdom welcomed.
Ta.
Dr J
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heelspike
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Sun, Apr 13, 2014 09:25:36
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I thought this site was about shoes.
Mine's not big by any means, but I'm not here to compare my cock with others.
I'm here to enjoy the shoes & have fun with the other members, etc..
Here in HSS, size doesn't matter..
Anyway that's my opinion...
Cheers,
Jason............
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Dr Jones
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Sun, Apr 13, 2014 10:33:57 |
Yes indeed this site is about shoes.
But if I want to ask a question about cock size, I will do just that.
My mistake was probably putting the post in the Womens' forum, instead of the Heel Bar (though my question was really aimed at women).
If you look closely you will see the Heel Bar allows us to, and I quote, "Talk About Anything"." Anything" clearly includes a discussion about cock size as part of a forum dedicated to shoe lovers.
If admin sees fit to move or delete my original post, so be it. If not, I am vindicated!
Dr J
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Amy Aponte
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Fri, Apr 25, 2014 18:42:33
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Your buddy here Doctor. Does size matter? Yes and no. The hubby has, when erect a 6 3/4 inch cock, not small but not porno material either - good!! Did I say good? Bloody right I did. I had an old bf that had a real, genuine, true to style porn cock - the damn thing when fully in was uncomfortable! Now my husbands is, like Goldilocks, not to big and not to small. HOWEVER, the hubby's "right size" cock has one feature I enjoy and most women will tell you the same - it's a very thick cock. I feel full without feeling like something is being shoved up into my stomach.
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bobbybox
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Sat, Apr 26, 2014 09:34:48 |
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Good reply Amy. Not sure it helps most average guys here...lol yes me included, damn..over 6 in but not thick, oh well cant change it.
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sxymle69
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Sun, May 04, 2014 11:33:25
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Think the true test is is ur girlfriends / wife's heels longer than ur cock? My wife's 6" stilettos definitely are she likes to point this humiliating fact out!
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Dr Jones
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Mon, May 05, 2014 18:48:50
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Sxymle69, having a cock size less than your wife's heels clearly didn't deter you. Neither, clearly, did it deter your missus.
Did you ever feel under-endowed (before you were married, say) to the point where you felt so ashamed of it that you were put off, so that you couldn't have sex with a woman?
I did, which is the destructive point. It's clearly some kind of psychological failing on my part because, as Ive said, Mrs Jones is fine with my cock as was the occasional GF before her.
The flip side to this issue is a guy I knew well who had 9". Apparently this thing looked awsome and 'all the ladies' wanted a session with the man. But, later, when he married, his missus was full-up at 6" so the 3" that wouldn't fit inside her caused a mountain of sexual issues for them both with discomfort, frequent sexual failures, and so on. Who would have thought a guy with 9" would wish he just had 6"? But he did.....
I don't know! It's a strange issue for blokes.
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sluttyheels
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Fri, May 09, 2014 18:34:53
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you can have the biggest cock in the world and not know how to use it to please a woman... it takes much more than a cock to get me hot :-) think you need to let go and enjoy "Dr".... x
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Dr Jones
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Tue, May 13, 2014 16:23:49
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... I do want your views so Thanks V much for taking the trouble. :-)
In actual fact, you are absolutely right about letting go and enjoying. Unfortunately, this 'thing' is so deeply engrained in me that I've never yet found a way to do just that!
It's been a millstone for 50 years. In some ways it's a personal tragedy that I've allowed myself to be overcome by such thoughts. But I did.
Erect and fully hard, my cock is about 6, or 6 1/2" long and about 4" circumference. Mrs Jones - who had her share of gentleman friends in the past - assures me my cock is a decent avarage and somewhat bigger than many she's seen, so is entirely normal.
It apparently reaches 'right to the top' inside her pussy. She chokes when I f*ck her mouth too hard. She says it looks good!
Still, though, I tend to disbelieve and all the doubts come flowing back.
Oh well......
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sluttyheels
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Mon, Jun 02, 2014 21:17:11 |
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I understand how someones thoughtless redicule can affect and stay with U for years, I was on the receiving end of a lot of it in my teens regarding different body parts, nose, legs, bust (lack of) it hurts at the time and it stays with U no matter how much other people reassure U in later life, so I can understand where U R coming from but there comes a time when U have to let it go and love yrself, the whole of yourself, yr a package not one body part :-)
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Dr Jones
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Tue, Jun 10, 2014 19:24:37 |
Hello SH. Thanks!
Probably, that ridicule is the basic reason I went down the shoe direction as a young man. Sure, it was always part of me even as a boy. But I could have had a 'normal' sex life with girlfriends but for the ridicule.
But I withdrew into myself and any sexual inclinations I had were directed towards shoes, not towards a woman. This, I honestly believe, was 'cast' into me by the ridicule. When mates were going out with girls, I was f*cking shoes.
This went on for years until, eventually, my only sexdrive was for heels, not the woman who was wearing them. It took over all aspects of my sex life, to be honest!!
I'm now too old to change, I'm affraid!
That's it. That's my story....
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