Dr Jones
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Mon, Aug 16, 2010 07:15:51
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For arund 45 years I've enjoyed shoe sex in one form or another. Until meeting Mrs Jones this practice was always solo sex.
I'd often x dress to heighten the pleasure, get all my heels out to play with, etc.
And then the cum!
After the session I always feel 'dirty', cheap and disgusted with myself. I round up my collection of heels and stow them away vowing not to do it again. I undress as quickly as possible to rid myself of the trappings of what I've just done. Only when I'm dressed and left the bedroon (or wherever it took place) do I feel better about myself.
With Mrs J involved it's not like that for me.
Just wondered if anyone else felt the same?
Best.
Dr J
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what a shock!
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Mon, Aug 16, 2010 07:46:02
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You felt like that as you thought you were the only one. Now with the net is it is easy to see it's one of the most common turn ons, then people may mot feel its as bad as you did?
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CrashTestDummy
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Mon, Aug 16, 2010 09:33:15
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I know EXACTLY what you're trying to express here, I feel the exact same way about solo shoe sex. It's kinda weird in a way, how I would look forward to the shoe sex all day, and after the deed is done, there is an inherent shame that hovers over me. I'm hoping one day that I'll be lucky enough to find a partner who shares the same interest as me, and maybe it wouldn't be too bad.
But yes I always feel like I shouldn't have fun with shoes right after the cumming... but later... I always come back for more!
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what a shock!
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Mon, Aug 16, 2010 13:37:30
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Isn't it the same for any form o sex for most males? Not a dig just an observation from varied experience. Man does pretty much anything when horny but when he's come he often loses interest as is a common joke as I'm sure you are aware. But a true one none the less.. For a while then it's back on again. So it's the same for straight sex too but just without the shame part
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riftzone
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Mon, Aug 16, 2010 13:41:11
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yep, that pretty much is how it works for me with any form of sex/cum. the change that is instant is quite amazing. Nothing personal just how it is
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riftzone
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Mon, Aug 16, 2010 15:36:06
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How about women? Maybe we should ask the opinion of a Rampant Rabbit LOL
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sluttyheels
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Mon, Aug 16, 2010 16:41:25 |
with women its not so instant... we cum and there is a while after when we can cum again which is why there are the other jokes ..about wanting cuddles lol... spose its like coming down from any high, doesnt mean anything, we just react to our bodies need same as men
as for the nothing personal part, men have to remember that women, especially in their heightened state just after orgasm... take EVERYTHING very personally hahaha... bit of advice guys..
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asdf174
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Wed, Aug 18, 2010 23:43:17 |
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For a lot of men it can also be a chemical thing for example some men a lot of men feel sleepy after sex, thats because their brain produces several chemicals during sex (norepinephrine, serotonin, oxytocin, vasopressin, nitric oxide, and the hormone prolactin) they say the release of prolactin is linked to the feeling of sexual satisfaction and causes a sort of cool down time for guys. Anywho point I'm trying to make is biochemistry can cause some interesting things to happen when it comes to sex. Back to the original question I agree with WAS first response I often feel the same way after I wear heels or masturbate with them and I think it's more of a psych thing. I feel bad because I think it's weird for a guy to have a fetish for woman's shoes and to want to wear them etc.... which is why sites like this one and others are great. Lets me know exactly how many people have the same turn on. whew sorry for my babble lol.
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