sluttyheels
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Sun, Jul 11, 2010 14:10:35
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what do males think of this? do you cross dress totally or partially? does wearing heels and stockings for instance make you a cross dresser or just in touch with your feminine side? or do you do it for the excitement? how does it make u feel? less of a man or very much more? submissive or dominant?
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keet_in_heels
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Sun, Jul 11, 2010 19:15:59
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When I was a kid my mother always said "He should have been a girl"hear that every day from birth. I got to a point where I thought the same thing obviously I think its what is termed as brain washing. I used to be and still am a bit of a cross dresser but I just love high heels. I was I think any way a very good looking young girl at times and yes I did go out and about as a girl and had girl friends as well. As I said I could write a book but just have never got round to it maybe I should.
As for being in touch with the fem side that would be definatly. As for sub or dom that depends I think on the mood at the time.
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Dr Jones
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Mon, Jul 12, 2010 09:59:48
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... but when I do it gives me a sort-of kinky, sexy feeling deep inside. It gives me a dom edge I think.
Unfortunately the heels in particular are a bit too expensive for me to justify buying a pair of really good ones. Particularly as I'm size UK 11. I've got an OK pair of 9's (that cripple me a bit). And the wig, well, do I look the biggest twat ever in that wig !?!?!
Still, all in all, Mrs Jones and I have a good time out of it.
One thing dressing as a woman doesn't do, is make me feel like / want to be a woman. I just do it for a bit of fun.
Funnily enough, one thing seeing other men xdressed does do is make me feel horny. And that's a genuine surprise for me.
Best.
Dr J
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kinkyshoes1985
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Mon, Jul 12, 2010 11:58:08 |
I wear stockings and heels and do class myself as a crossdresser, i also sometime wear skirts and blouses as the more i wear the more slutty i feel, my wife knows so this makes it easier and she knows its just crossdressing and i have no intention of becoming a women.
When dressed i do feel less of a man but still do like to be dom at times.
Also i have met crossdressers and do get turned on by seeing other men dress
My intrests are nice sexy and even slutty female clothes on both men and women so thats the reason i dress to get that feeling
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RikkiTV90
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Mon, Jul 12, 2010 18:56:03
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I like to dress how I like a woman to be dressed if she was with me.. is that wierd?
I have found that I love to be the sexual fantasy I have in my head.. short skirt, sexy classy stockings, high heels..
I rarely wear full dress so to speak and have not done make up since I was a teenager.. I have no suitable wigs... however, if I dess more conservatively, I feel less slutty and more ladylike.. not sure about more or less of a man.. not really considered that aspect as I am all man inside.. just don't look like it sometimes I guess.
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stefy_heels
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Tue, Jul 13, 2010 01:14:20 |
wow... good questions!
Now (language barrier permitting) I try to share my own experience.
Wearing stockings and heels made me sexually excited when I was a teenager. Then it came the time where I was favouring all extremes: extreme heels, extreme clothing.
It was the time when I wasn't nearly yet close to imagining what living (even if for a few hours) as a female means.
In the past 10 years I've developed a coscience of who I am and who I would really would like to be...and that is a female.
I started giving up crossdressing and started dressing up to go out. Go out for dinner with friends, go to pubs and clubs, go out shopping or just for a nice daytime walk.
That needed a different outfit than that I was dreaming of, after all I was a male going out wearing feamle clothing and I didn't want people staring or even worse laughing at me.
So I choose jeans and kitten heel mules over miniskirts and 5" heels.
Common sensce probably.
So now I keep my highest heels for some special occasions and favour some more comfortable lower (but not less sexy or appealing) heels for the times when I have a chance to go out fully dressed.
Anyway I always try to dress like any other girl od my age would.
Wearing heels or anything feminine is not a matter of excitement or fetish, it's just a thing that gives me a sort of serenity and reflect the girl who's trapped in my awful male body.
Hope it was not too complicated to understand
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tapshoesrule
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Thu, Jul 15, 2010 07:17:46
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i love cross dressing
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sluttyheels
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Sun, Jul 18, 2010 14:43:38 |
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when you do cross dress, do you want to be the slut and dress in short skirts etc, or do you want to blend in and try to pass as a woman? would it excite u to be chatted up by a man? or do you do it because the feel of feminine clothes makes u hard?
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RikkiTV90
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Sun, Jul 18, 2010 20:34:27 |
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That'd be short skirts in private, conservative skirts in public.
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asdf174
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Wed, Jul 21, 2010 23:49:12 |
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At first I didn't like it. I was just into heel wearing but it kind of develop into me thinking its fun.
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ninewest09
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Thu, Jul 22, 2010 00:50:54 |
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I do cross dress just for added sexual stimulation whenever I masturbate. I limit my dressing only to sexy lingerie (cami, bra, panties, garters and stockings) heels included.
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love_me
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Sun, Jul 25, 2010 23:04:06 |
Whenever you masturabate? Wow man, I wouldn't have the time to crossdress whenever I masturbate. Probably do it too often :-).
As for me, I started doing this as you do for masturbation. However I liked the feel and started adding select female items to my everyday appearance over time. Shaved and later epilated my legs and arms, started wearing pantyhose in winter instead of long johns, even use nylon socks in summer (all male socks are just TOO THICK! and on some occasions you cant wear shoes barefooted), sometimes wear t-shirts from the ladys collection and have generally become more effeminate.
I like it that way. I don't want to cross borders. My shoe sizes is EU 44, and since shoes are very important in my life, I would never feel like a true lady with such a huge foot.
But other than that I have never been a very manly man, I am slim, have no muscles worth speaking of, especially my underarms have always looked like womens', I have nearly no hair on my breast etc and those hairs on my weak arms used to look funny.
I actually needed that cross-dressing for masturbation experience to get me thinking and understand that I do not have to play the 105% male role. That shaving your legs and painting your nails (currently I use a transparent laquer, am fancying black as a next step) as a man is OK, if only you are the type of men on which it looks good, that you can actually wear nice clothes - and all without getting strange looks on the street. I now feel so much more self-confident in my "soft male" outfit than I used to when I wore only what all the other men wear.
Interestingly, my interest in true cross-dressing for arousal purposes has somewhat weakened since I have found the right balance for my everyday attire.
Although I still do it from time to time :-).
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marcienjackie
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Fri, Jul 30, 2010 17:15:03
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When I was 12 and I was alone in the house, usually in summer holidays I started to sneak into my moms room and put on her underwear. I would stand in front of her full length mirror and look at myself a basque and stockings that she had. This used to get me really excited and I started to masturbate while looking at myself. I still don't really know why I started doing this, but it carried on throughout my adult life in secret and in two marriages.
Having been in the situation a lot of guys are with having a shoe and crossdressing fetish but nobody to share it with I can tell you it gets to be very frustrating.
So eventually I met the lovely Jackie and within 2 weeks of moving in with her I confessed everything and she loved the idea of me wearinng womens underwear. Obviously this meant I was free to express myself and Jackie has actively encouraged me so I would say I have stopped being a crossdresser and now I am a part time transvestite. I love dressing in outfits, wearing makeup and being feminine. We have even been on shopping trips to buy me clothes which is the best fun.
Marcie the TV is an extension of my personality and my sexuality. As a male I am straight but like kinky sex BDSM etc. As Marcie I can be sub or dom but I am very definitely bisexual, and we have had threesome sex with another TV.
I've never felt so relaxed and comfortable and it's due to being with an understanding and openminded woman.
Marcie
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keet_in_heels
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Fri, Jul 30, 2010 19:27:26
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I have to admit I have been in situations similar. I have now got to the point where I really do not give a monkeys. My partner at this time is very ad lib if you like but I still do not feel very comfortable about getting dressed up to tart fashion even though I have been with her while she is having sex with other men which I may add I do like.
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Shoeboi
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Sat, May 12, 2012 17:46:02 |
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I myself really only go as far as nylons and heels when it comes to Cross Dressing. I feel for me that's good enough.
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Dr Jones
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Tue, Jun 17, 2014 15:02:31
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Even then, it was just dressing in ladies' under garments for a solo sex thrill. That was during my first marriage, done when she went out and I was alone at home.
I never felt anything woman-like in ladies' clothes. It was just a means to a different way of having a cum. I honestly don't know what the clothes did for me sexually / psychologically! I can say one thing, though, I almost always felt bad about myself / dirty / useless about myself after the orgasm, and couldn't wait to take the clothes off. I felt as though I should be having sex properly with a woman, rather than what I'd just done.
But, sooner or later, the need to repeat the senario would build up again and, somehow, the tension would have to be released.
I do have a blouse and a red PVC patent skirt + undies, tights, etc, obtained whilst with Mrs J, but haven't put those on for years. I've got a blouse, a bra, a wig, panties, tights, and heels, too. Mrs J and I had a bit of pseudo-lezzy fun where I was the other 'girl'. We went shopping together a number of times to get the me various items of womens' clothes!
It was OK. A bit of fun! (But, my goodness me, its, simply not possible to be anymore un-feminine than me in a skirt and blouse! LoL. I do look so bl**dy stupid. LoL).
That's my experience with X dressing.
Best.
Dr J
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