sluttyheels
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Wed, Jan 27, 2010 14:00:51
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lets start this off...
on a one to ten basis... how high do heels figure in your sex life? and is it enough?
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riftzone
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Wed, Jan 27, 2010 14:15:38
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can we say shoes and boots rather than heels?
If its shoes and boots then they feature about a 9 i would say, 10 on a good day LOL. I dont just mean sex with shoes/boots, but just the general wearing of them. She will wear ones i like whenever she can guess thats a good thing about not just liking one type.
I think they are always there in the background for us in some almost sub-conscious way !
With regard to the sex side, shoes/boots always feature in some way maybe wearing or using but we both get a lot out of them these days!
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kinkyshoes1985
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Wed, Jan 27, 2010 16:32:05 |
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I think we would have to say 8
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Shoeboi
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Wed, Jan 27, 2010 17:15:47 |
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I'm going about a 8. I've found a good balance involving just wearing during sex and not letting it take over from the real fun.
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marcienjackie
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Wed, Jan 27, 2010 19:05:38
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We both wear heels and it is lots of fun dressing up, obviously we don't do this every time, as there are other thing we like to do too.
It's not just the heels though it's the stockings and corsets and gloves and pvc and leather etc that goes with a pair of sexy heels to make a fuck me now outfit.
SH love your latest pics
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bootzarebest
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Wed, Jan 27, 2010 20:45:44
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But if we keep spending time on this site it will end up at least an eight , probably a nine!
P&B
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pumphmpr
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Wed, Jan 27, 2010 21:27:14 |
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I reckon about an 8 for her and a 10 for me! We are both into shoes and sandals, nylons and leather.
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simba
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Wed, Jan 27, 2010 21:31:36 |
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around an 8 or 9
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riftzone
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Thu, Jan 28, 2010 16:56:44
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well the few results we have are pretty consistent and pretty high too, so what does that tell us??
Would be interesting to hear from each person in the couple to see the difference maybe.
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what a shock!
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Thu, Jan 28, 2010 17:07:20
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For us I would say its an 8. Becasue 8 out if 10 times we have sex im in heels! haha. Only time not is wake up in the morning sessions. I cant remember the last time we actually did anything when I was in flat shoes. Don't think its ever happened come to think if it! haha. I may have to have a word! :-)
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riftzone
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Thu, Jan 28, 2010 19:51:34
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So does that bother you at all or does that fact that he likes you in sexy heels make it better for you both? If the sex is better for him then i guess it's going to be better for you too?
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sluttyheels
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Fri, Jan 29, 2010 00:03:56
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does it always follow that if the man enjoys it the woman must? if theres a hard cock, there is automatically a wet pussy? .. its got to be a two way thing surely, more so than regular sex.. dont both parties have to enjoy the inclusion of the shoes/boots?
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riftzone
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Fri, Jan 29, 2010 17:01:10
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it has to be a two way thing to a point, maybe the women gets turned on by the giuy being so turned on and so the sex is better for both people, dont think women get turned on by shoes in the same way as us guys do, even if we would like to think so
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marcienjackie
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Fri, Jan 29, 2010 17:10:21
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maybe we are odd but we both like heels, both wearing and buying them, we both like to see each other in heels even to the point of shoe/foot worship and shoe sex both ways.
It's easy to generalise and yes because there is one happy partner doesn't mean that both are happy.
However saying that it's just the men that like the heels is not the case as can be seen by some of the female and couples members on here, enlightened place that it is :)
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what a shock!
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Sat, Jan 30, 2010 11:53:32
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Marcie - I think RZ was saying that men are turned on in a different way than women, not that it is only the men who are turned on by them. Sure, a lot of women are turned on by them which is why we probably buy so many, even if our partners do not have a thing for shoes. I think RZ was simply saying it is a slightly different turn on for guys which I would be inclined to agree with. But that is just my take on it of course.
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riftzone
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Sat, Jan 30, 2010 12:16:37
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Thank you WAS that's exactly what i was trying to get at. I did not mean to say women don't enjoy sex with shoes involved
If i may put it in a more blunt way, lots of guys look at shoes / boots and want to have sex with them by cumming or fucking them just as they are. I do not see the women looking at them and wanting them in the same way.
Most shoeplay pics posted by women are done to excite there partners or for the effect they may have on the guys looking at them, maybe i'm wrong about that, I'd be interested to hear from the female side.
All just my opinion of course, but interesting to see it from both sides i hope.
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sluttyheels
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Sat, Jan 30, 2010 13:11:50
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i think women look at shoes and think i have to have them... and its a rush when u get them, its exciting. when u wear them they make u feel different, sexy, desirable.. u can take it further and use them in a sexual way.. i think its this next stage that RZ is getting at where women are concerned. i personally dont look at shoes and think i want u in my pussy now... but that could be where they will end up :-)
btw... blunt is ALWAYS the way to go lol
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riftzone
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Sat, Jan 30, 2010 14:08:29
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Ok being blunt about it, would you think of a pair of shoes and just have to have them in a sexual way on your own, or would it only be for your partner to watch that would make you do that. Do you ever look at a certain pair of heels and get the urge to just use them like a sex toy for your own pleasure?
Is that blunt enough LOL
RZ X
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sluttyheels
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Sat, Jan 30, 2010 16:46:54 |
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i look at shoes and think... i love them, gotta have them, that would mean to wear and admire and just look at... second would be the knowledge they would attract attention. that is for my normal shoes... the extreme heels were bought with one thing in mind only and that is for bedroom use so i would be wearing them for us. if i was alone and wearing them for pictures or just because im in the mood to then yes i would use them. but i dont buy them to fuck no...
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riftzone
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Sat, Jan 30, 2010 19:15:16
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Thats quite clear now LOL.
And that is pretty much as i thought it would be, great to have a view from the other side on these important matters.
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marcienjackie
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Sat, Jan 30, 2010 22:00:22
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Speaking personally, seeing a pair of sexy shoes doesn't make either of us want to have sex with the shoe. It creates a sexual feeling or urge to either wear the shoe/boot during sex for your own pleasure and your partners if you are both turned on by shoes,
OR if somebody is wearing sexy shoes it create a feeling of wanting sex with the person not the shoe.
Of course there are lots of people on here that want the shoe for sex but that's a different aspect of having a shoe fetish, or maybe it's a different fetish altogether???
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asdf174
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Sat, Jan 30, 2010 22:49:12 |
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Wish this was a subject I could speak on :( Oh well I have plenty of alcohol. Who needs a gf right? LOL.
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asdf174
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Sat, Jan 30, 2010 22:49:13 |
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Wish this was a subject I could speak on :( Oh well I have plenty of alcohol. Who needs a gf right? LOL.
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blablabla
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Sun, Jan 31, 2010 10:41:33 |
For us heels are important, but as SH stated earlier on, for my wife heels are not directly related to sex. Sure, she feels sexy and powerful when she wears heels, but that doesnt automatically lead to sex.
For me it is about the same, I can enjoy watching her in heels, but I do not need to wank over her feet each and every time she wears them.
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Sun, Feb 07, 2010 19:37:25 |
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9 for me
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johnnyjake
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Sun, Feb 07, 2010 20:10:16 |
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I say a 9 and always improving.
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Love4heels
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Sun, Feb 07, 2010 22:16:26 |
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At least a nine...
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Patentheelcummer2011
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Mon, Feb 08, 2010 15:17:23 |
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it's definately a 10
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keet_in_heels
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Mon, Feb 08, 2010 20:33:11
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My partner loves a dress up bang I just love the heels that go with it. Its a shame that so many of the porno sites do not include them in the movies. I do when doing a movie of my partner and one of her bangs.
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RikkiTV90
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Tue, May 25, 2010 17:55:48 |
We often play dress up together.. both in stockings and high heels.. is dead sexy and I love it.
Rikki,
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prodigem
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Wed, May 26, 2010 19:40:56
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For us as a couple, I would say that she enjoys the effect the heels on me throughout the day, while I enjoy the heels while we are having sex more.
If it was up to her, she would rather tease me all day in her heels and have the more "comfortable", barefoot sex, while I wouldn't mind having her relax barefoot all day and be in heels in bed.
So as a couple, I'd say its a 6 (she has heels on 6 out of 10 times we have sex), which is enough, but I would love more.
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RikkiTV90
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Mon, May 31, 2010 08:48:28 |
What with both of us in sexy high heels? Definitely.
Rikki,
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