i was watching a young girl doing her very best to walk in a pair of four inch stiletto pumps, but apart from looking in total agony... not a good look really... the right heel was so bent in it was nearly touching the floor... how can that be a sexy look?? maybe there should be schools for walking properly in heels lol... what do we think??
It is a double edged sword. Some women can look down on it with a feeling of superiority, where others may sympathise with someone just starting out and finding it hard. I know I did. I guess it depends on the viewers mood at the time.
Also, I have commented on this before to Mr WAS when we have seen people out at night and he gave the opinion that he actually finds it just as turning on but in a different way. As if someone is struggling they are obviously going through pain to look good - and that turns him on as it does most people about high heels - the pleasure and pain thing. So, I guess its always about the onlooker and his her mood or pre conceived opinions.
kinkyshoes1985 Premium Member
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Mon, Aug 17, 2009 19:22:43
i can see where your both coming from but think im with what a shock here,
For me i think the person is trying so hard to be a bit different in the footwear department, maybe to impress or just feel sexy.
But on the other hand me and my partner also do have a little giggle lol x
just an observation on something that i saw... the connection to the pleasure pain thing is a bit obscure but it struck me as very un sexy as the gait took away the sexiness of the heels... and the face was a picture lol