sluttyheels
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Sun, Jul 19, 2009 23:53:41
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i wonder why women here are more likely than men to show their faces... infact there arent many men who show more than their dicks... why is that? i dont class tvs or cds in this, as their pix are in a class of their own anyway, a higher class in my view...
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asdf174 Premium Member
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Mon, Jul 20, 2009 01:03:08 |
I don't show my face in my pix because I don't want someone who knows me in my day to day life to know about this side of me at this moment.
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Alessandro55 RedHot! Member
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Mon, Jul 20, 2009 02:44:47 |
Its because they think you ladies would rather see their dick jammed into some womans shoe than their tanned muscled body or ruggedly handsome face . :-)
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SassyCat3000 Premium Member
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Mon, Jul 20, 2009 20:57:37 |
i hate to say this..but "you seen one dick you have seen them all" with a few differences. i assoicate not posting a face pix with the "quilt & shame" a man might feel with this fetish....just my opinion
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Imroter Premium Member
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Tue, Jul 21, 2009 17:34:36 |
I don't have my face on pics because of the reason mentioned before. I'd like to remain anonymous in case of ppl who know me find this site and my pics. But there's no penispics on my profile, not to keen on seeing that myself either. :P Each to their own though :)
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shoelove79 Premium Member
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Tue, Jul 21, 2009 18:29:37 |
I tend to agree with the anonymity argument, in that I would prefer to inform others about my fetish, rather then the other way around. But, there has to se a strong case to ask why others “stumble across our site…?” I just wish I could say “I like your shoes (genuinely) and that my fetish is greater every day…….maybe others are just starting out,…..” love to all xx
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riftzone
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Tue, Jul 21, 2009 18:52:53
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well i too think that for many guys it's been hard to be open about there fetish so being able to indulge withour actually beinmg known is a huge outlet valve thats wide open and it's bloody great too. Another thing is that women are (lets face it) much more beautiful to look at than most of our ugly mugs so maybe that has a bearing on things too. If you did post a face pic on here and was recognised by another member then you would both be in the same boat so maybe thats not so bad after all !!
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faith Premium Member
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Tue, Jul 21, 2009 20:36:49
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I dont show my face much because im still learning how to make up properly, I think anyone who knew me and found me on this site, i'd say to them what were they doing here!
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what a shock!
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Tue, Jul 21, 2009 22:32:59
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I wouldnt say that about them no. Some are fine, some are not. Same as most profiles.
As for faces - like some say, its easier for us as its normal for us to wear heels where it isnt for blokes. So they wont want to be seen just incase somenoe may know them, or someone that does perhaps?
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asdf174 Premium Member
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Tue, Jul 21, 2009 23:03:35 |
Yeah but society still has its stigmas unfortunately. And the more people who find out the better chance other will find out (you know how rumors and stuff start.) And while there are some nice places to live with nice liberal and open minded people unfortunately I live in the ghetto in the Midwest United States for lack of a better way of putting it and if word got out I would eventually end up being jumped because someone would think I was gay for wearing heels. Plus I think a lot of women (not necessarily the ones on this site) would be turned off by a man in heels so that is another reason why I want to keep it kinda hush hush. Maybe one day I'll move someplace nicer maybe one day I'll meet that special someone that will accept it and thus make me not care as much, but until then, I just try to quietly enjoy my heel wearing/fetish/whatever you want to call it.
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slinkymel Premium Member
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Wed, Jul 22, 2009 01:28:49
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I'd like to say what a wonderful and heart-warming post that was from asdf174. A lot of thought and feeling went into that and I think it was very brave to put into words what are obviously realy important sentiments for her. It just goes to show that HSS is a whole lot more than just a few cocks in heels, and for some members it is a chance to truly be themselves. The rest of you can scoff if you like but I say 'well done gal!'
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what a shock!
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Wed, Jul 22, 2009 18:00:23
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Asdf is a bloke not a woman!
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what a shock!
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Wed, Jul 22, 2009 18:00:23
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BTW that wasnt a dig, I am just pointing out that he was referred to as "her" in the above post.
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slinkymel Premium Member
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Wed, Jul 22, 2009 18:40:40
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Glad to see tolerance and acceptance is alive and well on HSS!!!!
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sluttyheels
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Thu, Jul 30, 2009 01:32:07
tolerance and acceptance... |
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o its alive... dont worry,:-)
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Thu, Jul 30, 2009 23:15:58
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that's how many people know about my fetish, that has been with me ever since i can remember but i could be wrong about that,i am married to a woman (she is going to hit me for that one). J/K Ladies asdf174 Koodo's to you, i don't live in a big house, and have lots of money, we both work and she goes to college and we have a dog. everyday people
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what a shock!
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Thu, Jul 30, 2009 23:25:51
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Or at least I hope we are "everyday people". I prefer that term to normal people as, what is normal? haha. It will always be person dependant. All my female friends know about Mr WAS desire as they are always admiring my shoes which he buys, and you would be surprised the amount that say "cool, wish my BF was like that!". In fact I don't think a single one has said a negative. It isnt just the fact they would get bought new shoes either haha. Some ask what we do etc so I tell them. All Mr WAS friends know, but I can appreciate he wouldnt probably pose a full shot of himself on here in heels, but then - thats prob cos he doesnt wear them (even though we're the same size haha). He likes women in them - i guess what m trying to say is, being that shoe fetishism is the second most common turn on (apparantly), it is just seldom discussed which makes it taboo. Our philosophy is bite the bullet and talk to those who you think will find it interesting, dont hide it. As more will find it fun and intriguing rather than just downright weird?
(im sure this post of mine is maybe a little off topic, but it is still to do with faces as people don't want to show them as they are ashamed to admit. My point is, less find it as 'weird' as you think they do in our experience)
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sluttyheels
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Fri, Jul 31, 2009 19:17:25
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dont worry... i like the way these posts take on a life of their own... it just amazes me how many women here do post their faces... i wonder if women are more shameless than men? as in take me as i am or not at all?? even the women who dont show faces, show an awful lot more than legs and heels at times... maybe we are just a more exhibitionist gender lol
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what a shock!
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Fri, Jul 31, 2009 20:50:11
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You could be right
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stuthestud Site Assistant
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Sat, Aug 01, 2009 05:05:34
Ladies, I am ok with just a view of those lovely |
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precious toes, feet and legs in some pretty heels! OMG just please keep posting here and keep this shoe lover freak a happy man !
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sluttyheels
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Sat, Aug 01, 2009 10:06:31
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we got yr point the first time lol
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sluttyheels
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Sat, Aug 01, 2009 10:09:32
which leads me to another question.... |
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does your urge strike like a fever u cant control, stay for a while then burn out, or is it a constant hum in the back of yr mind.. an itch to be scratched???
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Neil Site Assistant
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Sat, Aug 01, 2009 16:06:22
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For me its a constant hum in my mind - never really quenched. Desires to see more, experience more, have more...
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Sat, Aug 01, 2009 18:51:57
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it's a constant buzz in the back of my mind, but on here and there it' comes forward and for about 3 days i have to feed my fetish, it totally takes over.
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sluttyheels
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Sun, Aug 02, 2009 17:28:42
im going to move this to another thread... |
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i think theres more mileage in it :-)
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