sluttyheels
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Fri, Apr 10, 2009 16:47:16
| how strong is your fetish |
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can you switch it off and on? do you need a trigger? are you a slave to your addiction or can you take it or leave it??
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randall
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Fri, Apr 10, 2009 17:27:26
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It is very strong. I feel that I can turn it off temporarily but it is always there waiting for the next opportunity to overpower me.
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Fri, Apr 10, 2009 21:56:09
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it is very strong with me,
but i don't let it rule my world
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smudge136uk
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Sat, Apr 11, 2009 08:16:10
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very strong, its hard to turn off when everywhere i look there are women wearing sexy shoes. On the train, bus and street, flip flops, sneakers/trainers, heels i love em all.
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Sat, Apr 11, 2009 14:48:24
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fetish isn't that strong to where it is with any kind of shoe it being,flip flop,sneakers, mine is strictly heels.
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smudge136uk
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Sat, Apr 11, 2009 17:12:14 |
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ok, but you must see lots of heels every day, and some of them, if not all turn you on!
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Sun, Apr 12, 2009 01:41:44
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really i see maybe 6 women a day work,bank,store, so on and so on.
but you see 100 times more sandles,sneakers,flip flops wich none have a heel on them let alone a 4 or 5 inch and none of those turn me on.
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drmgero
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Sun, Apr 12, 2009 03:12:05
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It works for me nearly as an aircraft. What pushes me are girls, indeed. If I am dating or catching any girl, I am ok with fetish - in other words, I will also tend to desire shoes the same. But, if it goes bad on girls, I tend to pay less attention to shoes. But hey, this is not a rule. I can fuel this "second tank" anytime, by having a hot shoe within my grasp!
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Spike
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Mon, Apr 13, 2009 11:36:55
| I'd rather take them then leave them |
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I’m lucky enough to have a girlfriend that accepts my fetish and asks me to pick her shoes for the evening. I never ask her to wear high heels, she initially did so because she knew I liked it; now I think she wears them because she’s very aware of the attention it draws. That said, I couldn’t date a girl that didn’t wear high heels on a regular basis. My girlfriend will wear heels when having sex about 25% of the time, mostly by her own initiative because she knows I really like it. I would say that if you can’t have sex without the presence of shoes, then you may have a little bit of a problem.
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riftzone
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Thu, Apr 16, 2009 15:06:01
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I will admit to haveng no control over my shoe fetish, it's ever present and always there. As i have a likeing for most styles of shoes and boots, flats or heels i find them everywhere i turn, out shopping or even when a girl walks by the house i just want to see what shes wearing on her feet, guess it's more of an addiction than a fetish. I would actually love to be able to turn it off and on for when i want to enjoy it but i have no way of doing that. Maybe i have a problem but i guess it's one i can enjoy on a daily basis.
So i'm guessing guys with a certain style of shoe fetish dont feel the same way as i do, would love to know how it is with you all
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what a shock!
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Thu, Apr 16, 2009 22:08:48
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Mr WAS here. RZ - i understand what you say, but I myself only have a thing for one style which is stiletto heels of the court shoe style. As you can probably tell from Miss WAS pics, they are all similar shoes. However wherever I go i always have a problem and cant turn it off, as if you work in a city, office etc then you are surrounded by women in high heels of the styel i love. So i may not be as afflicted as you, as flats, flips flops or anything else dont really do it for me so i guess my desire is less frequent. But i know what you mean
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riftzone
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Fri, Apr 17, 2009 05:23:12
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Thanks for your reply, it's interesting to hear how others feel about it too, maybe the range of my fetish is my "problem" too. Wherever i go there is bound to be something to see to distract me from what i'm meant to be doing LOL .
I'm amazed i havent crashed my car while looking sideways and if a female rep comes to sell to me amd shes sits there i great shoes it's a done deal!! Shallow i know but thats when i would love to be able to turn it off and then back n when it suits me to.
Working in the city with all those suits and heels on show would not do me any good, but what a way to go huhLOL.
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stuthestud
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Fri, Apr 17, 2009 06:17:26
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LovesPumps
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Fri, Apr 17, 2009 21:53:52
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I wish I could say I can turn it off any time, but that would be a lie. I'm first attracted to the woman, then her shoes....well, more or less. :)
I may see a sexy pair of legs and heels...and get quite an erection before I see the lady that wears them. however, if she turns out to be, well, not so attractive then her shoes do nothing for me.
But all in all, it's an addiction for me that would be tough to give up...
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riftzone
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Sat, Apr 18, 2009 06:15:04
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Is it something you can "give up" ? Not for me it's not i know that much, it's built in the brain and is not able to be turned off and on so i could never give it up.
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what a shock!
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Sat, Apr 18, 2009 09:47:07
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I agree in that I don't think you can just turn it off/give it up (in my experience). When Mr Was and myself have spoken before he has told me when he was seeing someone about OCD he was actually tempted to tell them about his thing for heels to try and get help with it, as it is rather uncontrollable at times. Alas he did not and we just talked more etc and got a better understanding of it.
That is what got me into it as when I met Mr Was I must admit, I only had about 5 pairs of heels as I'm 5ft 8 anyway so didnt tend to wear them. So now, rather than him trying to turn it off, talking about it made me embrace it more and rather enjoy it myself and now I cant image being any other way.
As for him, far from only talking to me about it - most people he knows now knows about it. Male friends and female friends. Its one of the things he is known for really, and of course, some find it strnge, some find it great and actually can see his point of view (a couple have come pretty much heel converts to be honest haha), and some get plain turned on by it. So that has helped him so rather than trying to turn it off, keeping it a secret was worse for him. Once he actually spoke to people and everyoen found out, it is strangely enough more controllable now for him becase it doesnt feel so tabboo being secret.
(BTW, im not saying you should all tell the world and it fixes everything, I am just saying what happened in our situation). xx
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Imroter
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I've come to accept that it's part of me. Had a lot of help and support from friends with it. It's quite strong, and even if i could live without heels, why should i? It gives me pleasure and doesn't harm anyone. :)
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riftzone
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Sun, Apr 19, 2009 09:20:40
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have to agreewith the last two posts, it seems often that guys are almost ashamed of there fetish as if it's some terrible thing that the world will hate them for, but it's harmless and it's great fun too so why do we feel so ashamed of it. You only have to look in anyshoe shop at the amazing heels and shoes being sold, your not telling me that most girls dont have a shoe fetish to sime degree, they certainly dont wear them for the comfort factor i'm sure LOL
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blablabla
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My "situation" is about the same as MrWAS's. I have never hidden it either and I have turned my girlfriend into a heel wearing Princess.
As with MrsWas, she only had a few pairs of heels and now owns over 50 pairs thanks to my enthousiasm. Our friends know that the two of us are high heel nuts and it is up to them to judge us for it, I don't care less.
I have always been open about my affection for high heels and if brought with the correct level of respect, most women I met have always appreciated my compliments.
Can I switch it off? No, I can't and I do not want to either. But then again, it has not taken over my life either.
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sluttyheels
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Sun, Apr 26, 2009 22:20:24
| it doesnt take over your life... |
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its a part of your life you couldnt live without tho isnt it? it doesnt take over, but its always there... subconciously it must guide some of your decisions in life
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riftzone
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Mon, Apr 27, 2009 20:34:54
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yes it does effect my everyday life , i cnat live without it and i couldn't so i try to just enjoy it. How about from a female point of view, how much would you miss the shoe fetish if it was not there. Even tho the shoes may not be your fetish would your sex life miss them if you got with a guy who had no interest in them??
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sluttyheels
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Tue, Apr 28, 2009 21:59:18
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i would miss it, it excites me... could i live without it... yes, would i want to live without it... no
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riftzone
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Wed, Apr 29, 2009 05:46:04
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yep, thats a good reply, it seems that you do at least have a choice which is good, i think now i have had a shoe loving partner it would be really hard to do without them altogether, even tho we dont always use them everytime we have sex, but it's the cherry on the top and a very big juicey one it is too.
Are there any women who actually get turned on by the shoes themselves like men do, or for a women is it all about the effect thay have on the guy there with?? Thats my wifes view, that it 's what they do to me that turns her on and the power she can hold on her feet.
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sluttyheels
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Wed, Apr 29, 2009 22:20:37
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its a big power thing... but its more than that, if i was wearing heels just for a partner i would have stopped at one pair of 6 inch heels and one pvc outfit lol... its developed from just doing it for someone else to actually doing it for me too... i take pictures and dress up and wear extreme heels for me, because it excites me, i love the effect the heels have on me aswell as him, so its very much a two way thing. i dont want to fuck them,i want to be fucked in them... i want to own them and admire them and be admired in them... and i always want more lol its an addiction and maybe an obsession...
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riftzone
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Thu, Apr 30, 2009 05:15:07
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yep, sounds to me like you have an obsession too and i have to say i'm so glad you do LOL
Most women seem to do it to excite there partners so it's really good to know what you do it for your own enjoyment and not just for his.
Is it something that you might find yourself thinking about during the day at work etc, do you feel the urge/need to get dressed up and do some pics and is that thought a turn on for you as well i wonder?
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what a shock!
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Thu, Apr 30, 2009 16:48:39
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It has its good sides and bad. Also like anything, at times you can just get plain bored with it all. I know Mr Was tried turning it off professionally before now, so he obviously wanted to and I can understand why. Like anything - some days its good, some days its bad.
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Shoeboi
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To answer your question. I myself am borderline slave to my fetish. Yes I can not wear during sex. But it just doesn't feel right when I do.
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