sluttyheels
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Sat, Feb 21, 2009 12:49:06
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do you use shoes as a substitute for sex with females? what happens when a shoe enhanced relationship fails... do you think, well i still have my heels, they wont let me down??
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blablabla
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Sun, Feb 22, 2009 09:49:34 |
Good question there SH.
I always wondered as well, some profiles give me the feeling that the guy prefers shoe-sex over regular sex...
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riftzone
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Sun, Feb 22, 2009 14:59:27
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Well SH you always seem to come up with an interesting question.
My own point of view is that if you have had a relationship where the lady has been a very willing partner with her shoes then theres nothing better and there is no going back to just using shoes.
That said , shoe playing solo fun can be and is still great to do for a change.
Another way of looking at the same question is if a guy goes from a shoe sex shareing partner can he be happy with a lady who is not interested in the shoe side of sex??
And how about from a female point of view, if yoiu have had a shoe sex loving guy how would you feel if a new partner thought sensible shoes in brown and black (one pair of each) is more than enough to own, well except fpr the fluffy pink slippers of course LOL
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Prince loves patent
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Sun, Feb 22, 2009 23:39:56
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Good question.
I certainly replaced women with heels while i had no one to play with.
Think i found someone into it,so will let you know how my 1st shoe enhanced relationship goes.
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asdf174
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Mon, Feb 23, 2009 00:08:38
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Granted it has been a roller coaster of self exploration over all I have come to this conclusion .... well for me my fetish is not the center of my sexuality. I've always tried to look at it as a bedroom hobby. (I.E. something that turns me on and I just kept in the bedroom). High Heels are something that just turn me on, dressing up is fun for me and kind of evolved from me liking heels so much.. Over all by no means do I view this as substitute for being in a real relationship with someone. Its just that I suck to much to get a gf. :) Na not really. I'm just super shy due to the fact I don't think I have much to offer anyone. But if I were to get into a relationship and if that person wasn't into this whole fetish thing it would be something I could give up. Easily, in a heartbeat.
Heels are a turn on and dressing up is fun and all but I would rather be in a relationship then anything else. Honestly lately I haven't even been focusing on heels and stuff for the very reason that I don't have a gf and I often think this kinda holds me back. Often I wonder wtf am I doing you know? Unless I luck out and get someone in the fetish community that supports me dressing up and stuff, I will probably will have to give it up. I just don't think most women would into this. I don't know. Then again maybe I think about it too much.
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Prince loves patent
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Thu, Feb 26, 2009 21:31:32
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I reckon you think about it just the right amount,i know exactly how you feel about that,me too.
I have been seeking a likeminded cinderella for a while but can't help thinking its what is holding me back too,women really don't seem into it-i thought with all the free shoes i could afford it would be like shooting fish in a barrel but it's more like shooting fish from an aeroplane!
Let me know what you decide,i could do with some advice.
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LovesPumps
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Thu, Feb 26, 2009 23:05:42
| interesting question gorgeous |
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For me, I'm interested in the heels because of the lady wearing them, not the shoe by itself. Heels in the shoe store or heels worn by an ugly woman do nothing for me. If the relationship fails, the heels are a fall back because the lady is still sexy. I'd still want to play with her heels but seeing her wear them and having the opportunity to get them warm from her feet...well, that would be tough!
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asdf174
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Fri, Feb 27, 2009 01:37:21 |
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oiledpatentlover - I don't know. Right now I'm just enjoying it as a bedroom thing and if someone comes into my life and I think it going to go somewhere I would probably give it up. Would hate to. But it is just a fetish and something for fun. Then again sometimes I think I'm more then likely not going to fine anyone so fuck it why not just enjoy it and be myself. But I don't think that is a path I want. Oh well I think I'm going to go drinking now this has me all depressed and shit!. LOL. Though I guess thats another way to look at it. Even if I do find someone I always have Jack Daniels and Captain Morgan to keep me company.
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Prince loves patent
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Fri, Feb 27, 2009 21:19:58
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I'll drink to that! Here's to you and me finding a soulmate,but if it aint to be i can flick my own switch to olympic standards.
Chin up-the sun even shines on a dogs ass somedays!
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sluttyheels
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Mon, Mar 16, 2009 22:42:54
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OPL has found his sole mate :-) just shows u... never give up hope x
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asdf174
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Thu, Mar 19, 2009 02:06:58 |
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That's cool.
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Dr Jones
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My fetish is definitely as substitute for sex with females. I really regret that, to be honest, because it'd be great to have meaningful sex with Mrs Jones.
For many varied reasons I used shoes as a substitute pussy in my formative years, and I learned to do sex that way, and that way only. Any erection I get these days usually dies away as soon as sex is about to take place. But I could easily have sex with shoes or perform solo sex (with or without Mrs Jones' presence).
Actually, I dislike myself for being this way but there's not much I can do about it now!
Guys have talked of being not interested in a woman's shoes if she wasn't otherwise appealing (Eg, that he thought the woman not nice looking or too fat, etc, etc). I don't make that distinction at all. I fancy the shoes which ever 'type' of woman is wearing them. And I'll even fancy the wearer **because** she's wearing killer heels, even though I wouldn't fancy her if she wasn't wearing them. (Bizarre, ain't it?). The other week at a party I fancied a woman who was probably over 80 years old. But she wore blk patent pumps. That was enough for sexual attraction: but, really, it was the shoes.
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